AN ONLINE DATING STRATEGY FOR 2019 (AND BEYOND)
THE SYSTEM says that you need to have a strategy in everything when it comes to dating and that includes online dating too!
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A key behavior that will give you more success with women
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Thanks for your years of great service to men. I am an adherent of your principles, which you so humorously and effectively explain in your weekly column. Now I’ve become addicted to your radio show and podcast too – thank you for being there for guys. Let me tell you, I think that we can all do with a dose of your advice!
I’ve been thinking about starting to use Match.com to meet women. I hear you talk about online dating all the time and I’m getting sick of the bar and club scene.
So here’s my question: do you have any suggestions for what to say when contacting a woman on Match.com? In fact, can you give us guys a blueprint for how to do it? In other words, what do you say in your intro, the next paragraph and the next paragraph, how do you wrap it up, etc. I’m okay when I meet a woman face to face, but frankly, I’m not exactly sure how to deal with her when you can’t see her. It seems to put a guy at a disadvantage.
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Also, are there any signs to look for when exchanging e-mails with Match.com women? Now that I think of it, the question I guess I’m really asking is how can you gauge a woman’s Interest Level across cyberspace? Don’t you really have to be in a female’s presence to accurately assess it?
I’m asking you this now before I actually take the plunge. Like you always say, it’s better to be completely prepared before going out on the battlefield.
Thanks, Doc. Looking forward to your response.
Jared - who feels awkward with the Match.com app.
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
I really appreciate what you said about me, and thank you for being so supportive. But I want you to do me an enormous favor. It’s extremely important that you get my book (no excuses because it comes in book form, immediate electronic download or even audio) and spend time with it daily. And remember to do it for the rest of your life, even after 35 years of marriage. It’s the most airtight safeguard you can give yourself when it comes to dealing with women, and its principles are eternal.
But let’s get back to meeting her.
Here’s the truth about the bar and club scene: it’s not the greatest place to meet women. It’s too dark, too much booze flowing, and that’s when people have a tendency to tell lies. If you go out to a club, you want to be there with your buddies, having fun talking about the old days, boxing, business, and, of course, women. But if you happen to see somebody you like in a bar or club, you have to ask her to dance. But don’t go there hoping to pick up Miss Right. The odds aren’t good.
Jared, online IS where the dating game is these days, make no mistake about it, and it’s easier than ever with all the apps out there. Even my Uncle Jethro Love says “Boy, you are dead in the water with the girls without your iPhone!” But before you join, you have to be prepared and you have to have a very strict game plan.
And the aim of plan is to get the girl...
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I’ve been playing in a coed volleyball league which just ended last week. Caprice left after the game last week before I was able to ask for her telephone number. Caprice sent out an email inviting all the team players to the bar on Tuesday and she also ended that if anyone wants to keep in touch, her telephone number is in the email. Caprice was playful as I was her to me during the volleyball league. What is your suggestion 1) should I attend the bar meet up and then ask Caprice for her telephone number ?(which I have in the email) or 2) Should I not attend the bar and call Caprice directly for a date? How long should I wait to call Caprice, since I received her phone number via an email ?
This would be a great question for the show – can you call in with it? I’m sure other guys are in similar situations. Get all the details at http://www.datingwomenradioshow.com
Thanks for writing!