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Dating Women Advice: Never Had A Girlfriend Before? 3 Things To Help


It’s frustrating, maddening and lonely if you’re in this boat and I totally understand why you feel the way you do. Many guys that start out with my dating and relationship education course called THE SYSTEM were once in your shoes – and they were able to turn it around. I’ve received thousands of you changed my life letters from guys that have found Ms. Right. Will it work for you? Read on below and find out for yourself.


Don’t Follow A “Guru” Blindly

​Many “love doctors” online will give you all these “techniques” to get her – as if women are idiots! Pheromones, matching her breathing pattern, becoming a character from a romance novel – all of this stuff is designed to prey on lonely guys and inspire you to spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars to blindly follow their program.

I’m not saying that they don’t have nuggets of truth mixed in with the ridiculous advice – but buyer beware. Anyone that says they can 100% guarantee success with any woman you want is a fraud – because it’s not possible due to something you have to pay attention to in item #2 below.

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“Just Be Yourself & Don’t Worry About Looks” – NONSENSE

You have to pass what I call a PHYSICAL ATTRACTION TEST by her. You don’t have to be a Men’s Health cover model (but it doesn’t hurt!) but you better have something that allows her to think “hmm, he’s kind of cute.” So many guys are brainwashed (usually by well-meaning women friends) into thinking that “looks don’t matter – it’s your personality.” They are right that personality does matter but you better start with her seeing SOMETHING in you.

Let’s take an example – you like 3 different sedans and you dislike trucks – so when you’re shopping for the car you are considering an Altima, Accord and a Fusion – now someone could come at you with an F-150 but you won’t even consider it – only the salespeople that have the Altima, Accord and Fusion will be able to show their “personality” to sell you because you want a sedan and not a truck.

Are you a sedan or a truck in her eyes? So, don’t head trip yourself on women that will never like you no matter what.

However, you need to keep yourself as good as possible for the women that are kicking your tires. I need you to be in the best shape you can be, fix your teeth if something is wrong, pay attention to how you dress, keep groomed (trim the nose hair, ear hair, neck hair and keep the nails short) and basically be as tip top as is possible for you.


You increase your odds of attracting more women that like sedans (you) when you maximize your assets.


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Work On Your Personality/Don’t Be Needy

I know you’ve never had a girlfriend but you don’t need to broadcast that – we might feel sorry for the underdog but that doesn’t make him more attractive. Fake it until you make it man and improve that personality. You need to learn how to have light and funny banter with women. You don’t need to be a comedian but making them laugh is never a bad thing and act like you don’t need them. You’ll be polite and respectful but don’t fall into the trap of falling all over yourself buying gifts (even a drink is a gift!), doing favors or acting grateful just because she’s talking to you.

You’d be amazed at how many guys shoot their chances in the foot by being over the top when they first meet a woman they’re attracted to – or are so under-confident the lady can’t see herself even going on a date with them.

Remember that dating is supposed to be fun and if she thinks that it will be a nerve-wracking experience because you’re so nervous and needy then you won’t get the number.

If you follow the three tips to a T you will definitely increase your chances of meeting and keeping Ms. Right!

Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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