SHE REGRETS MARRYING THE RICH GUY? UM...
THE SYSTEM says that you really need to pay attention to REALITY and THE BOTTOM LINE FACTOR. Does she really regret marrying the rich guy and not having him, her "true love..." Hmm....
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I’ve got a tough one to call that I need your help with. I’m recently separated from a wife who cheated on me. It was a very painful situation and one I wish to keep from happening again in my next relationship at all
costs. After reading your columns for some time I went ahead and bought “The System” to help me read women better. I hope it works.
On to my situation. My 10-year high school reunion is coming up and I recently connected with my childhood sweetheart, LeeAnn, who I’ve known since kindergarten. We dated all the way through college and had planned to get married. She was ready to marry before I was, but a silly fight at a party where I embarrassed her led to our breakup. Six weeks later she was engaged to the richest, most popular guy in town. I did nothing to stop her from marrying him.
Well, LeeAnn and I recently reconnected after five years of not talking. We went out for drinks. She confessed that even though she was still married, her relationship had long since fallen apart and that she no longer loved her husband. Basically, she said, it was over even though she hadn’t yet filed for a divorce because she was frightened for their kid. She also said she had regrets before marrying and that I was always the one.
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We both had the best time we’ve had in a while that night, but appropriately said goodbye at the end of the night, never crossing the physical line. On the way home I called LeeAnn’s cell phone and said that as long as she was married I couldn’t see her again. I didn’t want to be that “other guy” and to call me if she ever split with her husband. She agreed and said goodnight.
Doc, my main question is this: why does the past girlfriend hold such fascination for us guys? Is there ever an exception to your principles: “no going backwards,” “no married women?” Because this is the love of my life we’re talking about here, the most Giving, Flexible person I’ve ever known.
If the situation develops where I can have her back, is she worth the risk? Does the fact that she willingly reconnected with me make her a potential cheater?
I’m not at all a desperate guy. I’m good-looking and have a lot to offer just about any girl. Please help.
Smitty - who doesn’t want to regret blowing a second chance
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
“The System” will work only if it’s MEMORIZED. This goes for you and all the other guys out there. Once a week, find yourselves a quiet corner in the library and read it over and over and over again until it’s burned into your brain cells (or if you have the AUDIO VERSION listen over and over again). When it’s automatic, you’ll be well on your way to mastery and you’ll minimize your chances of getting burned by any woman ever again.
Smitty, how high of an Interest Level could LeeAnn really have had in you if you were going together for decades and then she decided to dump you because you made her blush at a party? If you weren’t sticking someone up with a gun at that party, how much of an embarrassment could you have been? What did you do, swing naked from the chandeliers?
To break up a long-term relationship like that, LeeAnn must have been...
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