SHE LOVES HIM AND GRINDING STRANGERS ON THE DANCE FLOOR
THE SYSTEM says that this is pretty obvious - she is perfect in every way EXCEPT she likes grinding strange guys at the club - so, yeah...there's that.
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I’m a faithful reader of your columns and believe that you are a genius. I was hoping that you could help me with an issue in my current relationship, something I haven’t seen you talk about before. Or maybe you hear about this sort of thing all the time and it’s too trivial for you to discuss. Anyway, please help me!
Parker and I have been dating for two and a half years now. We have plans to be married in a year or two. The problem is that she likes going out to clubs to dance. Sometimes she goes to these clubs with her friends and I don’t go along, since I work late a good many nights. I have no problem with Parker going out, since being as busy as I am I can’t be around to entertain her all the time anyway. But I do have a problem when she dances with other guys, especially when I’m not there.
You see, Doc, Parker does a form of dancing that’s called “grinding.” I don’t think I have to explain in great detail what type of dancing this is – you probably can picture it for yourself.
When Parker does this kind of dancing it makes me feel uncomfortable and I would like it very much if she stopped. She claims that it doesn’t mean anything and that she only likes to dance because it’s fun and she is into the music. She also says it is much different when she dances with me. We’ve discussed it several times, but it becomes quite heated and Parker seems to be disappointed with my lack of understanding.
My question to you is this: what is your viewpoint on a guy’s girlfriend going out to clubs and dancing with other men? Could you please tell me what kind of dancing would be acceptable for her to do with somebody else? Where do I draw the line?
Am I crazy to be bothered by this, Doc? Am I just I’m getting carried away by nothing?
I don’t want to start thinking that maybe Parker isn’t the girl for me, since aside from this dance issue; she’s Flexible, Giving, and a real head-turner.
Francis - who can’t help picturing what she’s up to when he’s not there
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
Well, the key to your misery is obvious – you just happened to fall in love with a stripper and you don’t know it. But if you can live with an exotic dancer, I say go ahead and marry the girl.
Me, personally, I don’t want my girl “grinding” other guys. And in the second place, I don’t want her even doing a minute waltz with any other guy because I want my girl to only want to dance with the guy that she’s deeply in love with. And that’s me.
Of course you want Parker to stop grinding, Francis. If you’re anywhere near normal, you don’t want to be sharing her with some two-bit jerk with a fake gold chain around his neck. Because what she’s doing is a very sexual and inappropriate expression, especially with a guy she met three minutes ago.What you don’t realize though is that...
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