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Dating Women Advice: 3 Great Online Dating Tips


Online dating services are great but as with anything in life there are pitfalls and things to know before jumping in. I’ll give you 3 things below that will put you ahead of the game as far as having greater success with this platform that is allowing (as of this writing) 20% of relationships to start and flourish (and only growing)

Fortunately, you have my dating relationship education course called THE SYSTEM to guide you in this area.


Two Professional Photos

You need one photo in business attire; one in casual gear. Don’t let your neighbor take these shots on your Android Phone or iPhone or any other device. Yes, yes, I know you have a great camera on the mobile device you just dropped hundreds on but only a pro knows lighting and what works best for your look.

Women zip through hundreds of profiles looking for Mr. Right so do you really want a couple hundred bucks to stand between you and the girl that might be with you for the next 40 years?

Stand out from the shirtless bathroom selfie guys with the reflection bouncing off the mirror and get her to stop and read what you have to say, which brings me to my next tip.

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Keep Your Profile Text Brief/Meet Her As Soon As Possible

All you should tell her is:

I’m not looking to text you 434,000x after date 1, I’m not going to tell you about all my toys or complain about the trike I didn’t get when I was 3 and I’m not going to fill your head with innuendos – I am looking for a self-reliant woman that likes to laugh and get to know a gentleman slowly.

That’s it – simple and to the point – you don’t need to sell her right in your profile text – you just need her to be intrigued.

As far as emailing back and forth with her allow 2-3 emails where you keep it light and funny with no heavy subjects or put downs – your object is to get her to meet you in the real world at a nice coffee shop or restaurant that everyone knows and she’ll feel comfortable at.

During that time with her you limit it to 45 minutes to an hour where you get her to laugh and see if she touches you. I have way more on what you should be doing step by step over the first 60 days of a relationship (your beachhead that will set the foundation for everything with her) in my dating relationship education course called THE SYSTEM and The Doc Love Club so if you’re interested in learning more about this, then hit those links so that you’re so different than other guys that she wants to go beyond this first 45 minutes to an hour.


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Watch Out For Scammers

If a beautiful 20-something model looking type is messaging you and you notice the age range of guys she’s looking for is 45-70 then she’s probably actually a dude sitting in a basement looking to grab your credit card or social security number. Basically if she looks too good to be true, then she probably is.

Scammers usually have unusual age ranges, ask you for money or personal information quickly, have generic profile text that is sometimes so badly written you can tell it is someone from a foreign country that doesn’t have a grasp of the nuances of English and other tell-tale signs.

The male ego so badly wants to believe that this girl who is 25 and looks like she could be a pro cheerleader is actually messaging you at age 48 looking to meet you ASAP but in the vast majority of cases it’s a scam.

Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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  • JediStudent says:

    Free vs paid online dating sites…..
    Does it matter?
    What about the specialty sites like Christian dating dot com or I love gardening dating dot com?

    • DocLove says:

      Actually it doesn’t matter – what really counts is WHAT WORKS FOR YOU. Some guys do well with free sites, specialty sites, or even crochet classes, toastmasters, speed dating, etc, etc, etc – the point is this – keep looking until you find stuff that works well for you personally. I hope this helps – I appreciate you writing.

  • Reno singles says:

    While dating with each other you should always keep in mind few things that whom so you are chatting or dating with each other keep the professional photos is must as you should know whom you are chatting looks and what is the age of that person is.

  • Fish says:

    High quality photos are a necessary part of modern dating. Don’t waste your time until you have some made. This topic alone is probably worth an entire article.

    Number one, create mystery with your pictures. Pro tip. Go look at the stock photos of Hollywood’s less attractive males like Steve
    Buscemi and Adam Driver. They aren’t smiling. They look moody and disinterested.

    And guess who always tells you to build mystery…yep – Doc Love. His principles apply to the online dating world.

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