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Dating Women Advice: 3 MUST HAVE Strategies To Be Successful In Meeting Single Women Online


Time to throw a statistic at you – about one in five relationships start online so if you’re considering meeting single women online then you aren’t alone and it’s only getting bigger. These aren’t the newspaper personals from the dark and distant past – online dating is rapidly becoming the mode that busy single folks are using to meet other singles.

To maximize your chances in meeting and keeping Ms. Right I’ve outlined 3 strategies you can use right now so you get the maximum amount of attention for yourself.


Hire A Pro

Forget about the selfies – forget about the bathroom pic – and don’t ever do a shirtless photo. You want two professional shots (yes, it will cost you but it’s worth it to stand out from the other guys you’re competing against).

Professional photo one should be in business attire while the second features you in more casual clothes. A professional photographer will make sure to put you in the best lighting, suggest clothes that bring out the best in you and help pose you for maximum results (so, even if your iPhone takes great photos and your buddy will take your photos do they REALLY know how to pose you for maximum benefit? I think not!). They are professionals for a reason and specialize in “getting your good side” so hire them and pay them.

You are up against hundreds if not thousands of other guys (depending on your city size) and with a millisecond click of the mouse she can be onto the next profile. Make sure yours stands out and you put your best foot forward so that she stops and thinks “who’s that?”

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Hold Things Back

When I’m giving dating and relationship advice to men via my website and book I always tell them to be a MYSTERY – in other words don’t let everything about yourself hang out there. Getting two professional photographs is only half the battle – you have to then say enough on your profile to interest her without giving her the world. Remember, you’re a mouse click from failure so don’t give her a reason to click to the next guy and forget you.

Don’t ever talk about negatives – she doesn’t care that you couldn’t get the parakeet to say your name when you were five. Don’t write a book – if it looks like it’s going to be too much for her to read then she probably won’t read it – get to your point quickly. Don’t write a laundry list of what you’re looking for and never brag. Really you should write something along these lines:

I’m looking for a self-reliant woman that would like to get to know me slowly over coffee – I promise to make you laugh a few times, I won’t text you 10,000,000 times after our first meeting and I understand the concept of opening your door.

You see where I’m building this? You want her to be attracted to you via your great photos in strategy one and then when she’s intrigued enough to read about you make sure you give her enough that she’s interested but not too much that she writes you off.

Remember this concept in online dating – NOTHING HAPPENS IN CYBERSPACE except for you to move it to the real world ASAP. You cannot date her online and you’re not looking for an email pal – you want to move along to get her out with you as soon as you can to see if you have actual chemistry with her.


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You Can’t Just Say Anything To Her!

All of this is great but it is likely you will be contacting the ladies yourself – although sometimes if they’re REALLY INTERESTED they contact you first – that’s always a good position to be in. Regardless your strategy should always be to make her comfortable enough to meet you – that means to:

*Never be creepy – don’t talk about sex, how hot she is, etc. etc.

*Instead, talk about her interests, what she likes, her hobbies, anything where you meet her on an intellectual level.

*Don’t be afraid to be humorous with her – don’t force it but if something she says in an email or her profile strikes you as funny, go with it.

*Get a meeting with her after about 3-4 emails back and forth – and don’t email her continuously for weeks on end – you need to move this to the real world ASAP.

The bottom line is that you want to get her comfortable enough with you to meet you for coffee or a drink – and always be very respectful when asking. You don’t ever want to creep her out because again, you’re a mouse click from getting flushed!

After building some rapport with her be direct when asking to meet her:

Let’s see if we have real world chemistry – you open to meeting for an hour at <NAME POPULAR COFFEE SHOP/RESTAURANT/BAR HERE – SOMETHING EVERYONE IN YOUR TOWN KNOWS AND IS COMFORTABLE WITH>. I promise to make you laugh a few times!

If she doesn’t want to meet, freaks out, makes an excuse then get used to saying the word NEXT in your head – just as there are hundreds if not thousands of guys that YOU’RE up against you have to flip the script and think “she’s up against hundreds if not thousands of other women vying for MY attention.”

If you employ the strategies above you’ll be that much closer to meeting and keeping Ms. Right

These articles give you a lot - but not enough - you need THE SYSTEM if you really want to be successful with women. Not sure? Read our "you changed my life letters."

Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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  • Allan says:

    The days of opening doors for women are gone forever. Why should women get treated better than men? Let them open the door for a man too.. this is not 1950 anymore and today’s women don’t deserve to be put on a pedestal

    • DocLove says:

      I disagree. When you have a good woman she appreciates that and she will reciprocate. Relationships are all about you wishing her well and her wishing you well. You make it sound like a competition where you’re keeping score as to what she does or doesn’t deserve. I often hear that I’m lost in the 50’s but read my article from MASTERY IV ( below and you’ll see my principles are TIMELESS. Thanks for writing.

      Lost In The Fifties?

      I’ve heard the criticisms that I don’t get what relationships are all about in the 21st century- that I’m “lost in the fifties.”


      Help me out, when did lying to your wife/husband become okay? In the 70’s, 80’s, 2000 or now in 2011? Is there an expiration date on being faithful to your partner? When did it become okay to break your word to the most important person in your life- your partner?

      Faithfulness, trust, integrity and keeping your word, IE, to be an honorable person, did they get “lost in the fifties?”

      When is it common sense to waste your time with a woman that has LOW INTEREST LEVEL?

      If they don’t think the above things are important, they’re not “lost in the fifties,” they’re lost right now.

      Fifties, sixties, seventies, 2000, 2011, it doesn’t matter, there’s no shortcuts, you’re either committed to a relationship or you’re not, being committed means being faithful. There’s no middle ground for either of you. If you can’t be faithful, don’t get married.

      I’m not “lost in the fifties” guys, I’m right here in the 21st century giving you the truth.

      I know this, if you just “wing it” in a relationship, IE, never pay attention to RED FLAGS, you’re heading for trouble. If you ignore the warning signs, it can turn your life upside down. I get emails all the time from guys that didn’t pay attention to the RED FLAGS and got themselves in the middle of a mess; it doesn’t have to happen to you.

      You have THE SYSTEM (, my articles and the radio show (, with them, you’ll never be “lost in the fifties.”

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