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Dating Women Advice: How To Tell If A Girl Likes You – Three Foolproof Ways


Ever hear this BRAINWASHING?

“You have to chase her.”

“Women play hard to get.”

“Just keep trying and you’ll win her over.”

Those are popular but false statements that keep good guys like you running over and over again into brick walls with women you have ZERO chance with.

You want to know how to tell if a girl likes you? Read the 3 foolproof ways that I teach in my dating and relationship education course called THE SYSTEM


Women Help You When They Like You

Let me tell you how a woman acts when she really likes you:

*Her body language has her leaning in toward you

*She asks you personal questions

*Her eyes are lit up as she’s talking to you

*It’s easy to talk to her

*She touches you – such as brushing your arm or leg as she laughs – at least once but usually multiple times

*You get no hesitation when asking for her number

*She doesn’t look away and give you one word answers to your questions

Gut feeling guys – don’t stop listening to the little voice inside you. You know when a woman is into you – but sometimes you feel so strongly about a girl you really like that you try to project your INTEREST LEVEL on her. You really want the girl you like to demonstrate the above and she doesn’t – so you make excuses as you try to grasp at straws hoping she’ll be into you – but remember this:



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They Don't Break Dates

Broken date = no chance.

Think about the women you REALLY LIKE – you know the ones that you can’t stop thinking about once you got her number. Have you broken any of those dates? Did you just decide a few hours before that she wasn’t for you?

I’m not talking about the girls that you were half into – I’m talking about the ones that had that immediate lump in the throat/your brain screams “who is THAT” feeling.

Have you broken dates with those women or were you counting the hours and then the minutes until you could pick them up?

It would take a catastrophe for you to miss the date with her and even then you’d probably try to reschedule during the ambulance ride. If she doesn’t have the same feeling for you then FORGET IT. Why would you want to waste your time and money on a girl that isn’t anticipating going out with you as much as you are her?

“Women are different Doc, ” you might say.


They’re just like us – they get strong feelings for guys just like we get them for ladies – ever seen a bunch of them at a concert as they’re watching a hot singer? Yeah, so don’t tell me that they can’t act just like we do!


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She's Totally Focused On You

When you are on a date you might as well be the only person in the room because if she really likes you that’s how it will seem to you. If you have to drag conversation out of her as she is looking more and more bored then you should forget it.

I would think that’s obvious to a lot of guys but sadly it’s not. Again, with the BRAINWASHING in our society when it comes to dating women guys think that all they have to do is try harder and pursue more.

I’m going back to point #1 because it’s important. If you don’t remember anything else from this article remember this:


Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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  • Joe says:

    First, I would like to thank Doc Love for point out these important indicators. Asking for phone number, calling 5-9 days to ask for a date, and actually meeting her at the date are of course the most reliable indicators. However, Doc has a great point that these quick indicators of interest (IOI) allow us to assess her interest level quickly.

    I would also like to quote Erik von Markovik’s exhaustive list of IOIs and hopefully they can be complementary to our discussion here:

    Active IOIs:

    • She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
    • She giggles.
    • She touches you.
    • She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you.
    • She looks back and glances at you repeatedly every minute or so.
    • She tosses her hair (to see if you will look).
    • If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second.
    • She smiles at you.
    • She stands nearby (proximity).
    • She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said.
    • While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you.
    • She says something to her friend and they both giggle.
    • She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation.
    • While you’re talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention).
    • She asks you for your name.
    • She asks you your age. (Make her guess.)
    • She compliments you.
    • She is playful and tries to challenge you.
    • She’s disagreeing but laughing.
    • She’s punching your arm but laughing.
    • She uses nicknames for you.
    • She plays with her hair while talking to you.
    • When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours.
    • She repeatedly touches you in any way.
    • She asks if you have a girlfriend.
    • She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one.
    • When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back.
    • She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you.
    • She avoids mentioning her boyfriend.
    • If it comes up that you like something, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it.
    • When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction.
    • She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she’s looking.
    • She introduces you to friends.
    • She buys you a drink.
    • She calls you a player or a heartbreaker.
    • On her way put, she reapproaches to tell you that she is leaving. (Get her number.)
    • On your way out, she asks you where you are going. (Invite her.)
    • She returns your calls.
    • She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have isolation with you.

    Passive IOIs:

    • Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing), but she stays.
    • She comes to see you and hangs with you for extended periods.
    • If you move, she follows you or waits for you.
    • She doesn’t flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close.
    • She doesn’t resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut).

    Most important IOIs:

    • She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
    • She giggles.
    • She touches you.
    • She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you.

    Indicators of disinterest (IOD):

    • Avoidance: She avoids eye contact. She avoids your calls. She avoids you in general.
    • If she can pretend that she didn’t hear what you just said, she will.
    • She won’t contribute to the conversation.
    • She gets impatient easily.
    • She walks away or looks away.
    • She leans away, turns her back, or talks to someone else.
    • She is nonresponsive, or she repetitively says “uh-huh” instead of giving you a real response.
    • She won’t move with you, even two feet away. She won’t invest.

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