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Dating Women Advice: 3 Tips For Successfully Dating Women In The 21st Century


Are women really that much different today from the ones your older relatives talked about when relating their dating women stories?

Listen I get that were in the era of instant status updates that can connect folks to a YouTube Channel that tells your life story in the span of a half hour but I’m here to tell you that human nature hasn’t changed in thousands of years and that when you’re looking for Ms. Right then you better keep in mind the 3 tips for successfully dating women in the 21st century below.


Forget Technology

I’m not saying go back to the days of smoke signals and Pony Express (Google that fellas – or recall back to your 5th grade history class – it’s where they used to deliver messages by horse) but you shouldn’t be technology-dependent.

I know it’s funny that I’m telling you to use less technology considering you’re reading my dating tips for guys blog and I have a website, YouTube channel, Facebook and Twitter but it is important you limit yourself on technology.

Why? You must be a MYSTERY and CHALLENGE if you want to have success with her. If you spend all your time texting, tweeting or sharing Vine videos with her then you are just burning yourself out in her mind.

It’s like when the WIMPUS AMERICANUS guys of the past spent hours talking on the phone only to realize she was BORED with them on the actual dates as she knew too much about them.

Women roll different – they want to get to know you SLOWLY – even if they protest that fact. When you give them too much too soon then it’s easy for them to say “here’s another one I’ve got in my pocket.” Of course they don’t say that outright but the results are when you get the “let’s be friends” speech from a girl that only weeks before couldn’t wait to give you her work number, home number and cell number.

It’s easier than ever for them to get information on you and in the relationship dating education course I teach you MUST BE A MYSTERY AND CHALLENGE if you want any chance.


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What Kind Of Girl Is She?

If you think that integrity, kindness, flexibility, giving and having a sweet, supportive way about her is old-fashioned then you’re completely off base in what you should be looking for.

I wrote an article in my popular book Mastery IV where I detailed whether or not I was “lost in the fifties” because I wanted her to have the things I just mentioned (and no, being “lost in the fifties” is not a bad thing if you read that article).

Guy, if you’re going to spend years, if not decades with her, you better make sure she has the qualities above – and women like that still exist. You can’t settle for anything less because it’s better to be alone than to be with a life partner that is a nasty, taking, selfish person.


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What Kind Of Guy Are You?

By the same token if you want to have a kind-hearted giving woman with integrity then you better be a guy that gives her respect, affection and romance – just not right away.

Okay, give her respect always but as far as romancing her or giving her too much affection keep MYSTERY and CHALLENGE in mind.

YES – she wants you to be romantic and affectionate – just not too soon! I remember a story where a woman told me on the FIRST DATE he was trying to kiss her and put his arm around her and guess what? He was OUT soon after.

She does want your attention but not until she’s comfortable. Remember how I said women move SLOWLY? You’re going to move even SLOWER and drive her crazy enough to come at you wanting more of your time because you’re smart enough to hold back.

Always keep in mind that she holds the REJECTION CARD and can pull it out at any time. You will flip the tables on her because it’s impossible for her to REJECT you when she’s coming at you asking to see you because you’ve pulled a disappearing act on her.

Let me train you and you’ll see how to accomplish the above in no time at all!

Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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  • Scott Schweiger says:

    This is absolutely true. I bought your System for my now 19-year-old son Nathan ( his birthday is today 10/18). He is a freshman at Ohio University in Athens Ohio. It is a very good school but is also known to be a party school with all kinds of girls.
    He’s a very good looking boy (of course!) and I bought him the system the summer before he went away to college after his second break up with his high school sweetheart(you can’t go back!).
    My point, as it relates to the article, is that this girl was not a giving flexible girl with a sweet supportive attitude and she put him through hell. She was high maintenance and full of drama. This girl was driving him so crazy that he went to speak to a psychologist, but I knew what he really needed. The System! After he began to study the System, his entire attitude changed and he became happy because he knew what had been happening with this girl and did not feel bad about the break up anymore .
    Now that he’s in college, and sudying the System, he knows what to look for and what to avoid. We talk regularly and he has learned that you don’t “hang out“ like all the other guys do with the girls. He knows to set a date, even if it’s just for a walk in a nearby park, because he understands the meaning of a date .
    He also understands the qualities to look for in a girl as mentioned in this article. I have impressed upon him the need to have his own life and be happy with himself as the System recommends. He has become a charmer. He’s not worried about being alone because he knows it’s much better than being with the wrong kind of girl . I have been happily married to Cindy for almost 4 years now as a result of my work and study of the System and have already submitted my “you changed my life” letter. As I continue to study the System and practice the maintenance program, I also get to hear and discuss how my son is applying the System in college. He really feels like he has a leg up on all the other guys at school. Thank you and Jeff for everything you do! Your long time student Scott from Cincinnati.

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