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Single men: if she betrayed you once, can you ever trust her again? Doc Love breaks down why trust is non‑negotiable in love and why taking her back makes you the chump, not the champ.

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Hi Doc,

I’m a little confused about what to do. My ex-girlfriend is trying to come back into my life. We had been dating for almost two years. We never fought, always got along, were totally in love. She’s a beautiful girl and I myself have never had problems meeting women. We both worked at Hooters where she always had guys pursuing her, and I had dated most of the girls that worked there. So we were both I guess somewhat confident and always a Challenge to each other. I just knew from the day I met her that she was the one I would marry.

Well Doc, the problem is, about ten months ago, she left me for a Med student who will soon be a doctor. He has money, and bought her everything she wanted, so she didn't have to work anymore. They were moving overseas to finish his schooling, and she was going to marry him and live on a tropical island. I couldn’t believe it when she left but I told her I was happy for her, and what could I do but move on with my life.

Before long, I was dating new girls, and having a blast being single. Then she called me a couple of weeks ago; to tell me that she thought the money would make her happy, but that she’s miserable with her new guy. They do nothing but fight. He’s not a Challenge. He’s jealous and possessive and she realizes he’s tried to buy her love and that she doesn’t respect him. Now she says that she really only wants me and would give up everything and move back if I would please give her a second chance.

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Hi Tex,

You showed a lot of class when you wished her the best after she stabbed you in the heart and broke off the handle. You could have done what most guys do and either acted like a whining wimp and begged her to stay or screamed and yelled like a Macho Boy and called her abusive names. But you took the higher ground, the road less traveled. So you get an ‘A’ in self-control and now she’s getting her just deserts.

To get clear about what to do next, Tex, let's take an objective look at what was really going on with the two of you. The truth is that you may have had her body, but you didn’t have her heart, because when Mister Med School flashed the cash, she jumped ship. So now you know that as far as her relationship with you was concerned, she really didn’t give a hoot. Yes, she was interested in you, but her interest was higher in Fort Knox. What a phony. By the way she acted, you couldn’t help but believe that she was in love with you, and then out of nowhere, she takes off to marry someone else! Trusting her to do the right thing is like trusting a klepto-maniac to count up the church donations. Think about it.

And now that she realizes that she made a big mistake, she expects you to roll over and take her back like it’s no big deal? Yikes! She’s got cajones the size of papayas. Tex, if you were to take her back, you’d start feeling like a real chump and she’d lose all the respect she had left for you. She might not be completely aware of it, but deep down, she’d be thinking of you as a pliable, spineless wuss. Also realize that if you were to let her back into your life, you’d never be able to relax, knowing that if another guy with lots of money came along, you could easily get burned again. So as far as you’re concerned, she’s permanently branded with a big M, for Mercenary, and you’re not hiring.

Tex, taking her back is a no win for you. She’d feel better and you’d feel worse. So forgive her, but you must tell her to take a hike and go fly a kite. Why? Because she broke the bond of trust, which is one third of Integrity.

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The “System” says that when someone is trustworthy, his or her behavior is predictable, and this girl threw you for a loop.

Remember guys, once a woman strays, you cannot afford to have her in your life, because trust is non-negotiable and she knows you are weak because you let her get away with it. Once respect is gone, there can be no Interest Level.