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THE SYSTEM says that you can learn from everything - including movies - as long as you're paying attention - an older romantic comedy starring Will Smith has PLENTY to teach you - see below
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It’s an older movie but I recently saw it and this time I had my ‘System’ glasses on (I didn’t the first time I saw it). Anyway, it was Hitch starring Will Smith, and while I found it enjoyable enough to sit through – mostly because of the bombshell actress Eva Mendes, who plays his love interest, Sara – I found myself scratching my head when it was over. In fact, I thought to myself, “Did I just see another Hollywood fairy tale?”
Doc, I have so many questions about what Hitch did in the movie that I hardly know where to start. So I guess I’ll just start.
First of all, do “surprise” presents work on women? When Hitch sent those walkie-talkies to Sara, I got a queasy feeling in my gut. If anything, a move like that might make a woman feel sort of trapped, wouldn’t it? But then he said something like “You can sweep any woman off her feet if you have the right broom.”
Regarding kissing, is it true that the first kiss tells all for a woman? What about that whole rigmarole about the woman “fiddling” with her keys at the end of the night if she really wants to kiss you? Finally, how about that thing where the guy should move 90% in and let her move in the last 10%? I don’t know, Doc, but it seemed a little hokey to me.
Something else that struck me was that the heiress fell for and married Albert. It sort of gave me hope that I could maybe score a big-time model like Adriana Lima. But on the other hand, I don’t want to make a fool of myself. What’s your take, Doc? Can total losers like most of us guys really hit the jackpot?
When Hitch moved into the area of love doctors, I didn’t know what to think. Doc, would you ever turn down money from your clients? I don’t know if you make as much money as Hitch does, but I have to assume you guys take on all comers. Doc, I hope women don’t hate you as much as they hated Hitch! If they do, I hope for your sake you’re making truckloads of money!
Maybe most surprising of all was that in the end, after being in control of his emotions, Hitch ended up completely losing it and throwing himself at Sara’s feet. How about it, Doc? Should you ever reveal to a girl that she really hurt you as well as all your weaknesses? Should you ever break down, leap on the roof of her car and confess undying love like he did? Whenever I’ve done that stuff, the girl’s made me feel like even more of an idiot and blown me off. But maybe I just didn’t say the right things. Is it true that we only get one shot with a girl?
There were a couple of other things, too. Like does a woman’s best friend have to approve of you? Finally – and don’t laugh – should guys really get their backs waxed? Isn’t that a little too “femme?”
I’m sorry to make this letter so long, but like I said, I was curious to hear what you had to say.
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DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
First of all, I dug the movie more than you did. In certain scenes Hitch was great, especially when that Wall Street sleaze-bucket wanted to take advantage of a woman and Hitch put his head on the table and moaned “I’m not about that!” For me, that was the high point of the film. In other words, the date doctor was all about the long term and being respectful towards women, which is the way it should be.
Now, I want you guys to give presents to your women. But the Reality Factor says that guys give them way too fast, they give too many, and the gifts are too expensive. Giving things to your wife is great, but not when she’s nagging. And the implication in Hitch is that gifts raise Interest Level -- that was the worst part, because they don’t. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love would say, “Love might be for rent, but it’s not for sale!”
What most women would have done with those walkie-talkies Hitch sent gift-wrapped to Sara would be to call Fed Ex immediately and ship the package right back out, and he’d have it the next morning! What Hitch said wasn’t true – you can’t sweep any woman off her feet with the right broom.On the other hand, it is true that the first kiss does tell it all for a woman. But the way Hitch put it...
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I had a recent experience about creating challenge thatI thought I would share with the Doc Love readers. I was on a third date and a girl said I was too good to be true. I said not at all! And laughed
She asked what I meant. I said there is like a 75% chance I’ll break your heart.
She got a little mad. I told her I liked her odds though and laughed again. The next day she texted me that she might break my heart and I sent her the laughing emojis back.
I think her interest level was decent before that exchange, but it’s crazy high now. She’s blowing my phone up.
Guys, always be ready to create challenge when an opportunity presents itself.
Great story! Thanks for sharing.