WANT TO KEEP HER? SHUT. YOUR. MOUTH.
THE SYSTEM says that sometimes it's as simple as SHUTTING YOUR MOUTH and not broadcast how much you like her because if you don't you really hurt your chances with her.
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I’ve started reading “The System” for the second time now. I’ve already gone ahead and bought Mastery 1 and 2 to study after I finish reading “The System” 14 more times. I am also a member of your Doc Love Club and listen to your hourly radio show every week.
Right now I have one question. How do I reduce my Interest Level for a particular lady? Taylor is a very attractive woman in her early twenties. We’ve been dating for only a few weeks, but everything seems like it’s going great. I’m 28, but I can feel that at any moment I could lose control over her. This has always been a problem for me in the past and it’s destroyed a few relationships. I do not want to come in so hot that I turn Taylor off.
You talk about Self-Control and the need for it in your book. Can you give me any practical suggestions for how to cultivate it? I think this is extremely important and has to do with Self-Esteem, but no one ever seems to explain how you actually maintain Self-Control.
Any coaching would be greatly appreciated, Doc. I can already see that if I can internalize your principles, it will transform my love life.
Frenchy - who has taken the first steps
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It’s great that you got “The System” and that you’re reading it for the second time. Like I tell you guys, you have to read it 15 times – once a week for 15 weeks – then you’re going to read seven pages per night until you get married. Why do you have to read seven pages a night? Because once you get away from my teachings, YOU’RE GOING TO LOSE THE GIRL. And remember – seven pages per night will only take you five minutes – but it will mean the difference between a lifetime of success or failure.
In addition, you already have Mastery 1 and 2, which will teach you how to test yourself on my materials. Take notes on the Doc Love Radio Show. Pretend you’re in a college class. All of this will help. There are over 100 archived shows, so listen to those in addition to my weekly show. Plus, you’re getting my weekly columns. So you’re getting a lot of information from me. Remember to have fun with this stuff and don’t look at it as work. Like an artist, the more you practice, the better you will be. The more you go by “The System,” the stronger you will be with women.
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You’re looking at your current situation the wrong way, Frenchy. You’re not going to...
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I had the same problem. I never complimented or got touchy feely.
But after dating girls I like for two months, the conversations get more personal. I try not to talk about myself or my feelings, because that will slaughter challenge.
Doc, is it best to keep the conversation away from me and not get into anything personal about myself, till she asks to be the girlfriend ?
Well, there are a lot of nuances to this – you cannot just avoid telling her anything about yourself because she does need to get to know you but there is an art to how you give her information and that’s best for a discussion. Call the show sometime and I’ll talk you through it at http://www.datingwomenradioshow.com (or if you prefer more privacy order phone coaching at https://www.doclove.com/phone_coaching). Thanks for writing.