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Dating Women Advice: 3 Strategies For Overcoming Jealousy In A Relationship


Ah jealousy, one of the oldest ways to sabotage yourself in what was a good relationship. We all have the feelings – ALL OF US – they’re natural – but when you act on them and she’s a good, trustworthy girl with class then you will get a one-way ticket good for spending weekends alone. The 3 strategies below should coach you not to act on those feelings and for you to realize how stupid they really are.


She’s Not An Idiot, Right?

When you pull the jealousy move you’re really telling her how dumb she is. Since she’s with you but you assume she’d rather be with him then she must not be that sharp of a knife since she actually likes steak but keeps ordering liver.

That’s right – RELAX – SHE CHOSE YOU – YOU’RE THE STEAK TO HER – she didn’t choose random guy at the party – she doesn’t even know random guy at the party and didn’t even notice him until YOU STOPPED TALKING TO HER and started staring at him.

Bottom line? She’s with you – for now – so don’t give her a reason to think she made a bad choice.

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You’re Not An Idiot, Right?

When you have that elevated heartbeat and feel your anger rising because she’s going out with her girlfriends and you just know guys will be hitting on her and taking her from you, are you engaging in fantasy or do you have reason to believe that the random guys will be successful?

If the former than refer to tip #1 above – she’s not an idiot and if she chose you then you have nothing to worry about. If it’s the latter and you really do have to worry about her getting into some kind of trouble without you around to stare coldly at any guy that notices her, THEN WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH HER?

Why in the world would you make a conscious decision to delete every other number in your phone and go out with her exclusively if you can’t really trust her?

If that is the case then you are with the wrong girl my friend and need to re-evaluate your choice of women to get into serious relationships with.

More likely than not you weren’t an idiot – you chose a really good girl that would never think of cheating once she commits to a guy so refer to tip #1


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Get Over It – She’s Attractive!

You know the feeling you got when you first saw her? Yeah, you were into her – and the reason you have a relationship now is because she felt the same way – I love it when a plan comes together!

However, you’re not the only dude in the world with working eyes and active hormones. No matter where your honey goes she is going to get noticed and guess what? That’s a good thing! Again, if you’re with a good, trustworthy girl (and if you’re not, refer to tip #2, you’re an idiot) then you can imagine the other guys suffering as they hit on her and hear the words: “I’m sorry, I have a boyfriend.”

You should love it when she gets hit on a lot because many want her but only one has her – YOU - SO RELAX and enjoy the ride!

Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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