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Dating Women Advice: 3 Things Hurting Your Chances With Women


You know what – none of these things have anything to do with dating per se – in fact they’re unrelated at face value but if you don’t pay attention to what I’m about to write then you are limiting your chances to meet and keep Ms. Right because these are things she looks for and you may not realize it!

Some of what I’m about to write might seem “shallow” and you could easily dismiss them thinking “well, if she’s going to judge me on THAT I don’t want her anyway” and guess what, you’d be WRONG because the ladies are no different than us – they have their moments where the butterflies are floating around and the attraction is heavy and “yuck” moments – so minimize your chances of “yuck” floating through her gray matter.


Teeth Not Up To Par

Teeth are expensive so if you find that you need to pay for dental work then – DO IT. Teeth are important to how attractive you are to her and also for your overall health (I’m not a dentist but my dentist has shared all sorts of information with me about the value of a healthy mouth).

If you have bad teeth then your chances are bad – it’s just that simple. You want to be proud when you smile and while you don’t have to have perfect movie star teeth they should be even, clean and bright. Do not leave this to chance, get to the dentist ASAP and get them fixed – even if you have to get a loan or work an extra job – it’s that important.

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Bad Listening Skills

This is a major complaint I hear from women – “he doesn’t listen to me.” Some guys just like to talk, talk and talk! I know some of it is nerves early on, some of it is the fact you think you need to impress her and then sometimes it’s a personality flaw (that you should correct).

Whatever the reason you need to slow down and let her talk and then when she does make sure you understand what she’s saying and then offer follow-up questions. It’s interesting to get to know someone (especially someone you may spend years with) and also aren’t you a little bored with yourself anyway? I know that I live with me 24/7 with full access to my own thoughts so I know all about me – when I ask questions of others it allows me to know things I wouldn’t otherwise learn.

Beyond all that it’s something that will set you apart from other guys that either chatterbox on without taking a breath or brag about their toys /accomplishments (boring!) – it’s very uninteresting to her if you talk the entire time and don’t listen to her – so open the 2 ears while keeping the mouth shut!


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No Color Matching Skills

I’m not saying you have to host your own style show but some guys I see wandering around look like they dressed in the dark! Please have a sense of style about you by checking out some men’s magazines for the latest styles and make sure when you go to buy clothes you don’t go on the cheap. I understand not everyone has a million dollars but believe me when I tell you that you’re better off with less more expensive clothes than you are with many inexpensive ones.

I would go to a good clothing store and find a very experienced and trustworthy salesperson to help you put outfits together with quality clothing – and they don’t have to break your budget either – places like Kohl’s, JC Penney, Joesph A. Bank, Men’s Wearhouse and many others are forever offering deals on good stuff – so take advantage of those deals and advice in store (although you won’t get advice from folks at Kohl’s but that’s a good place to pick up casual clothing).

The bottom line is that she’s going to notice your appearance and that means good teeth, fit body (the more fit you are the more chances you have to attract more women), and how well you dress. Hey, you like what you like when you see a lady and they’re no different so make sure you put the best foot forward you can when out there because you never know when she’s going to turn the corner and be there!

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Hi Garry,


As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.


And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.


You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.


So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.


Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.


Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,


Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.


Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!


But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.


Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.


Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.


Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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