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Dating Women Advice: Would Hugh Jackman Put Up With An Unfaithful Wife?


Back in 2001 this guy was aware of my book but chose not to get it.  Now, he's in MAJOR PAIN and about to spend way more than $99 because of the MESS he's in with his beautiful but unfaithful and unstable wife.


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Hey Doc,

I discovered you many years ago. Though I didn’t buy “The System,” the advice in your columns struck me as genius! Recently I spent a lot of time hunting for you, the original Doc Love, on the internet, but there are way too many impersonators! I know now that I need “The System.” I’m so happy you are not retired and are still helping men and available to share your wisdom!

Anyway, after not buying your book, I married a very beautiful, high maintenance, woman (a part-time model) with two children of her own. Ashlee and I also had a son together. I have always remained 100% faithful, while my flirtatious and exhibitionist wife (see-through tops, no underwear under her skirts, etc.) has caused me nothing but grief over the past 14 years. She requires non-stop attention from all men, aged 19 to 93. A couple of years ago she started drinking every night. I caught her being intimate with a woman (her gay friend) in the backyard one morning as I was leaving for work. Needless to say this was the nail in the coffin for our marriage, but I thought we might be able to work through it.

But I was repulsed to touch her physically after that, so we did counseling, and the counselor suggested she had “histrionic personality disorder.” Within a couple of months I discovered my wife had been having a “sexting” relationship with my son’s sixth grade male school teacher that had been going on for over two years! She also admitted to having an intimate encounter at his home. Two weeks later I discovered she was again having a “sexting” relationship with yet another man. She is now in a rehab/counseling program, but she has lied to me again and again. Even after I caught her and she said it was over, I discovered that she had been sending graphic videos of herself to this man.

From what I’ve heard about “The System,” I realize I have made SO many mistakes with this woman. I was a Wimp, did everything she ever asked, worshipped her, complimented her nonstop, and worked seven days a week and overtime to provide her with enough money, only to be told that “I was never home” and that’s why she turned to other men. I should’ve had your book back in 2001. My reputation in her family is I am such a “good guy.” Now I know the truth: good guys finish last.

Now my wife believes we will remain together somehow, once she becomes “well.” I believe she is only concerned about my large retirement income, my inherited house, etc. My trust in her is COMPLETELY gone. I am just playing along for now, to appease her family and show my support, but my goal is to divorce her. I’m hoping her family will encourage her to go easy on me, the abused victim.

Hopefully, with her family’s support and sympathy I might escape with only a couple of years of alimony.

My question is this: do you agree that this woman is toxic to my survival and since I can’t trust her that our relationship is beyond repair? Any advice for handling my wife during the pre-divorce stage?

Arturo - who no longer wants to be Mister Nice Guy


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Let me get this straight. You’re telling me that you read a few of my columns, and that I’m a genius, and you have a huge problem with your wife, and for only $99 – versus all the money she’s going to pry out of you if you get a divorce – you didn’t buy my book? You see that the answer is right in front of you in the form of “The System” and still you don’t buy it?

What does that say about you, my friend?

And you’re still singing my praises to the world, but you still haven’t bought my book. You’re telling other guys to buy the book but not yourself? What sense does that make? Now here you are, after 14 years of extreme pain, and you still haven’t invested in the only thing that could have saved you.

If I had gotten hold of you, Arturo, you wouldn’t even have gone out with your wife a second time, let alone married her! But because she’s so beautiful and you were such a Wimp, you succumbed to this disaster.

That said, how could you miss the fact that Ashlee needed attention from the entire world of males when you were dating her, even if you didn’t have my book? Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “Did you actually think she was going to change for you?” To you Psych majors, the reason I coach men to go out with a woman for two years before getting married is so that they will have the chance to study her like a hawk!

Even a dope would have seen that Ashlee is in love with all the men on the face of the planet and she could never love just one guy because she’s not built that way. What were you thinking, Arturo?

Catching Ashlee with her woman friend WASN’T the nail in the coffin of your marriage. You talk about ultimatums and then you fall immediately into Wimpdom!

Let me explain something to you. Your wife is a sex fiend. Forget about... 

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  • Roger says:

    Unbelievable how clueless some men are. This guy had plenty of money to buy the System materials, yet chose to go it alone. Now he is paying the price in misery. I bought the System years ago when I was unemployed by scraping up the money working day labor jobs at minimum wage. I never regretted it. The System was the best investment I ever spent money on.

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