Blog | Doc Love - Dating Advice For Men - Part 929

22 Dating Women Advice: No Country For Old Men

MUCH OLDER MAN/YOUNGER WOMAN?  DON'T FOOL YOURSELF!

​(Editors note: this article first appeared in the Doc Love Club’s ADVANCED SYSTEM CLASS in 2011 & is one of 80+ ADVANCED SYSTEM CLASS articles available in MASTERY IV)

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WHO ARE THE FAMOUS EXAMPLES OF THIS?

​Older Man Dating Younger Women: Rush Limbaugh, Howard Stern, Don Imus (among others) would certainly dispute the title of this article.

Mr. Limbaugh’s lovely wife is 33 and Mr. Limbaugh’s what? 59? About 26 years her senior, Limbaugh makes millions of dollars EVERY year- she loves him.

Howard Stern (for years) has played the raunchy morning jock, but always faithful to his first wife, well, exit first wife (with a hefty settlement) and enter Mr. Stern’s beautiful young Barbie Doll wife, he’s also worth millions and she loves him.

Rich older guy marries beautiful young trophy wife, nothing new.

What does rich older guys marrying trophy wives have to do with THE SYSTEM?

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ARE THEY FOOLING THEMSELVES?

First, we all agree that Imus, Limbaugh and Stern (if they were regular guys) would not stand out in a large crowd of guys. IE, women would not flock to them- hardly.

We could also say that if these older gents’ current wives were hooked up to lie detectors and asked “did your husband’s money have anything to do with your marrying him? If they said “it didn’t have to do anything with why I married him,” the needle would jump like there was a 9.4 earthquake on the Richter scale- or how about asking her the question “is he the most physically attractive man you’ve ever been attracted to? There goes that needle again….

The radio guy Don Imus jokes about marrying a younger woman. He makes himself the butt of a lot of jokes about the older man married to the younger woman. It’s an act, obviously.

One thing those older rich guys have in common, they all have huge egos.

Like THE SYSTEM says, “put your ego aside.” These rich older guys with the young wives never do.

All of the women that have married (or are about to) older rich men have at least one thing in common. Their rich husband’s INTEREST LEVEL is higher than theirs. Oh, they have high INTEREST LEVEL to marry for security, IE- money, but romantic love? Uh-uh.

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A DOSE OF REALITY

Limbaugh, Imus and Stern have A LOT of marriages between them.

They can twist it, rationalize it, and joke about it, whatever. The simple fact is that they bought their wives.

The odds that they stay married to their current trophy wives? Less than 50/50.

Guys, whether you have millions of dollars, or not, if your INTEREST LEVEL is higher than the INTEREST LEVEL of your girlfriend, fiancé or wife, you’re just a stand in.

Limbaugh, Imus or Stern may be in control of their wife’s daily life, but they’re not in control of their hearts, oh if they knew what their young wives were really thinking, these huge egos would take a hit- harder than NFL Linebackers deliver on Sundays.

Why do they keep marrying young attractive women? Because they’re young and attractive – it’s why older men start dating younger women to begin with. They reject women their own age. Why? Because older women remind them of themselves.

Picture a woman that looks exactly like Stern, Limbaugh, or, are you ready? Don Imus! Oh Lord….

Guys, let me say it again “if you marry a woman with low INTEREST LEVEL in you, get ready for the pain.”

Let me revise the title of this article from- “No Country For Old Men” to “No Country For Foolish Old Men.”

They can afford to be foolish and play the fool, don’t you do it. There are already too many children being raised in single parent homes.

Note, one quick piece of advice for older guys married to younger women, when you jump out of bed and have to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night (and you will)- make sure you cover that elephant arse you have, your young wife has enough to deal with.

Hi Garry,

 

As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.

 

And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.

 

You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.

 

So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.

 

Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.

 

Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,

 

Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.

 

Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!

 

But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.

 

Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.

 

Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.

 

Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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