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Dear Doc Love:
I am a tad troubled by what I’ve been reading in your column. You talk a lot about what to do to find and keep a girl, but you don't seem to address the issue of what happens when the nice guy loses out to the jerk. Unfortunately, with many girls, this is becoming all too common.
I recently ended a relationship with a girl whom I treated very nicely the entire time I was with her. I treated her to meals, I talked to her with respect, and I was caring and tried to be comforting whenever she encountered difficulty or stress. All my friends attested that I treated her wonderfully.
She told me that before she dated me, she dated a guy who was anything but nice to her. How long was she with him? Two years. How long did she date a decent guy like me? Three months. There is something wrong with that picture.
I asked her why she had been with him for so long since he was such a jerk. She responded with "I thought then that I deserved it." With me, she never thanked me for taking her anywhere, got mad if I tried to be helpful and comforting, and towards the end, before she left, was very dismissive of me.
This raises the question: Do girls prefer to be not treated with respect or treated with respect? Friends of mine have had this same problem with their girlfriends. And if my friends and I have had that problem, then bet on the fact that most other men (or at least a good number) have experienced the same problem as well. Given how common it seems, this topic should be addressed, and it is my hope that you will address the topic in your column ASAP.
Armando – who is tired of not being appreciated
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What did you expect from a girl like this, a picnic in the park? A woman like this is simply not good relationship material. You want to avoid this type of woman at all costs because you don’t want her becoming the mother of your children.
If a woman is addicted to being with bad men, that means she will not be able to tolerate being with someone who treats her well. She may think that what she wants is a good man, but a good man will never (and should never try to) provide her with that constant sense of drama that she wants.
What almost always happens in this situation is that the new guy starts earnestly trying to prove that not all men are bastards by being extra nice to her. Then she winds up dumping him because he somehow just doesn’t light her fire. Sound familiar Armando?
So Armando, are all women like this?
Fortunately, there are plenty out there that don’t.
But Armando, you need to look at the role you chose for yourself in this relationship. You’re complaining about how your ex is attracted to partners that aren’t nice but didn’t you also put up with her not being nice to you?
Let’s focus on what you need to do with a woman that could be right for you and doesn’t just want the “bad boy.”
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The man that women dream of combines all the qualities of this confident individual, along with a capacity to love a woman deeply with an open heart (after she proves she’s trustworthy). I call this type of man The Positive Challenge. All men should aspire to be a Positive Challenge in their relationships with women.
Just remember that most women are sick to death of the endless number of men who are constantly catering to their whims. They’re desperately weary of always getting their way with men and are hungry for a Challenge even if he doesn’t come in the ideal form.
So, treat yourself with love and respect by finding a woman to date who is sweet and loving. And study “The System” to learn how to be a Positive Challenge.
Remember, guys, all women love a Challenge.
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