Can You Quickly Tell If She’s Into You?
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Hi Doc,
I went out with a few friends from college, and I hit it off very well with this gal who was part of the group. We were having fun laughing the whole evening. We had tons in common. She was also quite tactile and touchy, but I didn’t touch her.
More than a week later, I asked her friend for her number and her friend told me she'd match us up. Well, the gal called me within a day. We had a good chat, and she gave me her home phone number.
I asked her out for a date for a week or so later on a weeknight. This date was with the same friends we went out with the first time, so it was four of us. We had a good time, although I'll say the first time was much better, but still we had fun, and I noticed that once again she "unintentionally" touched me here and there.
She sort of made a point to ask me if I wanted some school papers, something relevant to what I'm doing in one of my classes, but it looked like it was a way for her to further the contacts between us. We didn't kiss at the end of the date at all; she just thanked me and left but mentioned we should be in contact. So, Doc, do you think she wants to be in contact as a friend or that she’s interested in more than just friendship?
Parker - who wants to know what his next move should be
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You did the right thing when you let her do all the touching. When most guys meet a woman they’re interested in, they’re immediately all over her like cheese on pizza, mistakenly thinking that they will raise the woman’s interest level by being Mister Touchy Feely. Actually, the opposite is true.
When you hold back and refrain from touching her at all, you are seen as more alluring and more of a Challenge. If you keep putting your hands on her, you inhibit her desire to touch you. When you don’t touch her, she gives you points for being distinctly different from the rest of her salivating suitors who invade her space.
But let’s back up a little bit. The fundamentally positive point here Parker is that this gal was touching you. You could have had the cooties, but she didn't care! Listen guys; when you first meet a woman and you begin to spend a little time with her, one of the most important signs of her high Interest Level that you must look for, is some form of touching on her part. It might just be a tap on the shoulder or a bump of the elbow, but any small amount of touching is often a big deal. Most of the time, women who are not interested in you will not touch you at all, and women who are interested in you, will touch you, at least in some way.
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1) Women who touch everyone: Universal Touchers (10%)
2) Women who touch and mislead because that’s all you are going to get: Strokers (10%)
3) Women who touch because they have high Interest Level (80%).
Now let me tell you Parker that you did make two crucial mistakes. First, you should have asked her for her phone number when you first met her, so you could have judged her Interest Level. The idea is to watch and see if she hems and haws or not when you ask her for the number. So, you missed a valuable opportunity because you didn’t take control from the get-go.
It amazes me how many men have about as much confidence as a wounded snail when it comes to being direct and simply saying: "What’s your phone number?" When you say those four magic words to her, you not only receive immediate valuable feedback, but it’s also the stronger, more masculine thing to do.
Instead, Parker, you took a weaker approach and went through her girlfriend. Fortunately, in this rare instance, your girlfriend’s girlfriend actually helped you. But more often than not, friends are undependable or misconstrue what really is going on.
Your other mistake was going out with her friends again. It’s tough enough to rate Interest Level in the beginning stages when you are alone with a girl, but with a crowd, it‘s darn near impossible. She could have been putting on a show for them or she might have been inhibited by them and would have been even more demonstrative if you were alone together. We don’t know, but we should. The good part is that she continued touching you.
This girl is too new to rate, but it appears that if you call and get a third rendezvous you’ll be in the running. But this time make it a one-on-one date. No more double dating for now. Just make sure that by the end of the next date, you kiss her or at least try to. If she responds affectionately, you’ll know that her Interest Level in you is on the high side rather than the low side. If she turns her head and gives you "the cheek", you should write her off and move on!
Remember guys, first and foremost, be bold and direct. Ask for the phone number with no apologies, which shows her you have confidence.
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