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Doc Love breaks down why being flexible — even when you really don't want to do something — can make or break your relationship. Learn how to win big points with her by showing up with a smile, not a sour face.

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Help me Doc,

I just spent the whole weekend arguing with my fiancée. She wants me to go to her class reunion, but I think it's a waste of time and money. I'm not the outgoing type, and I get uptight in groups - so the thought of spending an evening talking to people I don't even know makes me feel very uncomfortable. My girlfriend says this is a big deal to her. We’re in love and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but I don't want to go to her reunion.

How can we resolve this when we both have such opposing views? Am I being stubborn?

Paul – who feels pressured

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Hi Paul,

There is a proverb my cousin Rabbi Love always says: “One hand washes the other.” This statement, Paul, is your answer in a nutshell.

Choosing whether to go or not to go to the reunion - like any decision you make – will have positive and negative aspects and consequences. Let’s look at these two choices through the clinically objective eyes of a love scientist utilizing The “System.” Let’s take the questions in order: 1) What happens if you don’t go 2) What happens if you do go 3) What should you do if you do go.

First of all, I need to warn you up front: if you do not go to the reunion, your fiancée might go so far as to call off the engagement. Why? Because she will think you’re a taker. Just think: for a lousy grand and not smiling at strangers for four hours, you would break her heart. Cheap! Cheap! Cheap! In this case you are the thoughtless user. In reading between the lines of your question, I have the strangest feeling you are a pouter or a Mama’s boy. Am I getting warm?

Paul, do you really think there would be nothing to pay for this transgression? Do you really think she would let this ride? You will learn the true meaning of the word “resentment” when she makes you the poster boy for the word “inconsiderate.” Her Interest Level in you would definitely take a big dip on this one. Even in the best of circumstances, you would still pay a dear price in the way she treats you for a couple of months. The inevitable fights that would follow - seemingly over nothing - would cause her feelings to drop. Why? Because fighting never raises a woman’s Interest Level - unless you were a guest on one of those wild daytime shows!

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I hope you can now see that you really must go to this event. Since you’re going, make sure you don’t make the devastating mistake of wearing a sour expression on your face. If you do, you will undoubtedly make her feel uncomfortable and ruin her chances of having a good time. Then when you got home, she would nag and call you an insensitive pig because you didn’t put your heart into it. Nagging usually starts at the end of the honeymoon - why rush it?

Let me show you how to get some mileage out of the reunion instead - and make so many points with her, that life at home will be blissful for months, perhaps forever. The technique is this: go to her reunion with a happy face. Why is this important? Because the only reason she wants you to go is so she can show you off to everybody, especially all the guys who rejected her who now all have unhappy marriages. In addition, when you look like you’re enjoying yourself on the dance floor with her, she will believe her female former classmates are jealous of her. She will then feel lucky to be with such a fun guy, which is good for you. By merely making the effort to have a good time, she will give you credit for trying.

Your having fun at her reunion is, in her eyes, a big deal because she knows how much you hate these events. By going to the reunion and being a good sport, she will perceive your act as giving - and in the future, she will make her slate clear when you want to do something that she doesn’t want to do.

You may ask: “How do I act charming and fun when I’m so ‘uptight’ around crowds?” Answer: By growing a personality. Go join Toastmasters or Dale Carnegie - or buy a dance video. An evening like this will only happen once every ten years (if that), and at worst, will only last four hours - so grow up and show her you are a man by rising to the occasion. Remember, she would do it for you.

To prevent Miss Right from straying, a man must possess confidence (in addition to self-control and Challenge). A confident man is able to carry his water under many conditions – so be flexible. Imagine this: what if I gave you a million dollars - could you be flexible then?

Remember guys, if you could do it for a cool million then you could do it.