SHE FOUND HIS COPY OF THE SYSTEM?
THE SYSTEM says that if she finds your copy of THE SYSTEM then you need to...well find out what you need to do below!
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Doc, I slipped up last night.
First, let me give you a little background. Yancy approached me on the street and asked me for my phone number. I got hers as well. I was completely prepared to wait a week to call her, but after just four days she called and asked me out. It was an incoming offer, so I went.
When we went out, I kept everything light and funny, no heavy subjects, no putdowns, no compliments, and no touching. Yancy was doing all the touching and talking. I didn’t kiss her. The next day she left a text message saying “Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I had a lot of fun last night and I really enjoyed your company.”
Well, Yancy and I were out on our second date last night when she found the Dating Dictionary under the seat of my truck. (I forgot to take it out before I picked her up.) She flipped through it, then asked me to explain Interest Level and Womanese, which of course I did. She seemed to respond positively to the explanation. Then she asked me what I thought her Interest Level in me was, and I lied and told her 60% to 70%.
I know that it’s actually higher. Did I hurt my cause by breaking down Interest Level and Womanese to Yancy? Afterwards she asked me to go to dinner and dancing with her the next night. It was back-to-back dates (which I know from your book are no-no’s), but since it was an incoming offer I said yes.
Doc, do you think I should disappear now to build up more Challenge? What do you think about all this? Am I doing the right thing?
Thanks for your time. I love you, man. You’re the best.
Sonny - who doesn’t want to give his plan away
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
First of all, I want to make sure I got this straight. You’re telling me you were walking along a public thoroughfare, Yancy saw you and said to herself, “Know what -- I’m going to walk up to this dude and take him out?” For a guy like me who faithfully watches Mindhunter, it’s pretty darned scary. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love says, “There are lots of loons lurking around out there!” If Yancy were my little sister, I’d be very concerned with her accosting a strange man.
But you two made a connection. Now think about this. Ninety percent of the guys in America would have called Yancy within the first two days of swapping numbers. The other 10% are pretty sharp with the girls. And I’m talking here about guys who haven’t been schooled on my techniques. I know you guys think I’m beating up on you all the time, but I’m really only beating up the dumb 90%, not the slick 10%. But by utilizing “The System” and a waiting period, you got this girl to crack up. Another guy would have been on the horn to Yancy within 48 hours of meeting her, and never allowed her the possibility of calling him. To you Psych majors, you scored an “A” in PATIENCE.
Your behavior on the first date was classy. I just hope you made Yancy...
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