IS SHE REALLY INTERESTED OR IS SHE JUST MAKING EXCUSES?
THE SYSTEM says that you have to apply logic to dating (even though you might feel emotional). Do her "excuses" hold water or are they legit? Let's find out!
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I’m a dedicated follower of “The System” but I’ve seemed to encounter a situation I just can’t read yet.
Bridget and I are both 22. I asked for her phone number and without hesitation she jotted both her home and cell phone numbers. I waited a week to call her and asked her out for a Wednesday.
Bridget admitted that her parents were a bit strict and that she’d have to run it by them first. She called me the following day and told me that her parents wouldn’t allow her to go out with me because they didn’t know me just yet. She counter-offered to hang out at her house instead. It was a bit uncomfortable to meet her parents on a first date, but I figured it was some sort of test to see if I was truly interested in her or not.
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Things went well that night. Her parents and I got along amazingly great. They offered me dinner, and I accepted and was a gentleman throughout the night. I figured that after I “proved” myself, I would be able to take Bridget out on a second date.
I called five days later and asked Bridget out again, this time for a Thursday night. She accepted, but she said that she’d have to run my offer by her parents again. She called me the following day and said her parents still didn’t know me well enough and that they would prefer we hang out at their house again or with her friends. She then invited me to a concert on Sunday, where her friends would be.
Doc, I haven’t been able to get this girl out on a date alone yet, and so I can’t “interview” her. I’m pretty sure she has over 51% Interest Level in me, but it’s difficult to gauge her actions and ask questions when her mom and dad are hovering around or when her friends are present.
Should I stick with Bridget and hope she eventually gets “permission” to really go out? Or do you think she just wants to be friends?
Your wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
Henri - who’s never had to face anything like this before
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
When a girl jots down every number short of her Social Security for you, everything is just about perfect. So I’d say you were off to a darned good start with Bridget. I only wish you two were a little older. As it is, Bridget is on the outer age range of where many people can start to be serious about a relationship, but maybe she’s a mature 22-year-old. We’ll find out.
Now, this babe is running stuff by her folks for one of two reasons. Because she has to, or because she doesn’t have to. And also because she has high Interest Level or because she doesn’t have high Interest Level. What we’re hoping for is that she comes from an ultra-conservative family, because it means she hasn’t dated most of the football or hockey team. So, if you’re patient, this restriction can be a big positive in disguise.
Bridget returned your call the very next day? Dude -- how many women actually do that? One in eight? Awesome! Like Fast Eddie Love says, “We got Interest Level here, baby! Hallelujah!” When she told you her parents didn’t know you yet, you should have asked, like my cousin Doctor Love would, “Hey -- can I buy ’em off?”
But when she came up with the counteroffer to hang out at her house, she was...
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