HE WANTS TO KILL HIMSELF DUE TO LACK OF SUCCESS IN DATING?
THE SYSTEM says you never should take women personally - unfortunately this guy has gotten to a point where life doesn't seem worth living - he needs a major attitude shift and professional help...
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I have a major problem in my life that I just can’t seem to overcome. I think that you are the only person who can give me direction.
I’m 21 and haven’t had a single girlfriend in my life. In fact, I’ve had only four dates. And believe me, I don’t look bad. I’m 6’2” and athletic, and I’m intelligent (I’m an economics major and have a 3.7 GPA). Doc, I’ve tried with about a dozen girls. I succeeded in going out with those four I mentioned, but eventually all of them lost interest.
The reason why two of them rejected me was because I tried to kiss them a little inappropriately. (That’s what they said.) The last girl I went out with, Diana, was really stunning. She also had an extremely nice personality. She was the first girl who agreed to go out with me a second time. Then I tried to kiss her, but the only thing that I achieved was to scare her. She did not agree to go out with me again.
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My failure with Diana made me think deeply about myself. I reached the following conclusions:
1. My looks aren’t what’s killing me. One of my dates rejected me for a guy about 6’4”, 130 pounds. She looked even bigger than him.
2. I’m introverted and shy. When I approach a girl I feel anxiety, high blood pressure, and embarrassment. On one recent date, the girl even saw and remarked on how my hand was trembling. I only have this anxiety when I’m with women I have romantic feelings for.
3. I’m a negative thinker. When I see a girl I like, I don’t dare ask her out. This is simply because there is absolutely no reason that would make me believe that she’s going to accept. If I do approach her, it would be with the inner attitude that I’m going to be rejected. I realize that this is a wrong way of thinking but I simply can’t force myself to think in a different way. The feedback that I get from girls is negative.
I would be very grateful if you gave your opinion about my problem.
Dupree - who feels like killing himself
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
Sure, I can give you all the direction in the world, but are you going to do what I tell you? Or are you going to quit because it’s too hard to get yourself together? Do you want to stay a loser, or are you going to make the commitment to do what it takes to turn yourself into a winner?
First of all, dude, I hate to tell you this, but lots of guys are in the same boat as you but they just won’t admit it. The reason girls lose interest in you is because there’s something physically wrong about you that you’re leaving out of your letter, and/or you don’t know how to talk to them.
It’s funny that two separate girls used the same word – “inappropriate” -- about the way you smooched them. What the heck could you possibly be doing to them? I’d like to go into this in more detail with you, pal, but this column is G-rated.
Nevertheless, it’s a great sign that Diana agreed to go out with you a second time. With everyone else you only got to the first date and then you were history. But with Diana you got a little further. Perchance – assuming she’s not a Professional Dater – you did some things right on that first date that got you to the second. If I were invisible and could have been beside you I would have seen what you did right, or else figured out that Diana was a Professional Dater. And that’s where the importance of memorizing my material comes in – it’s like having me with you all the time. And you don’t say in your letter whether you have the Dating Dictionary or not.
You succeeded only in frightening Diana too, like you did the others, so I have to ask you this question: when you go to kiss a girl, do you...
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