THE MIXED SIGNALS HE'S GETTING FROM HER? WELL, THEY'RE TO BE EXPECTED GIVEN HIS BIG MISTAKE
THE SYSTEM says you get one shot, per girl, per lifetime and since he ignored that BASIC RULE he's now left wondering about her and her (predictable) mixed signals!
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I’ve been having trouble with Meghan and her mixed signals for a long time now.
Here’s the story. We used to date and it was a rough breakup. More than a year later she called, acting all chipper, as if everything was fine. We started hanging out again and gradually my feelings for her came back.
The problem is that I get so many mixed signals from her that I don’t know if I should make a move to make her my girlfriend again. She wears low-cut tops and practically throws herself on me whenever we meet, but always gives me an “I don’t know, I’ll check my schedule and call you back” whenever I ask her out, and she never actually does call. Other times she’ll call and say she misses me, but gives me the same routine when I ask her out. This whole situation has me twisted into a knot.
Recently I said to myself enough is enough and I let her initiate all communication with me. She instant messaged me the other day saying “long time no talk,” but I was still ticked off at her for blowing me off so many times so I bailed on the conversation.
I miss Meghan, but am standing my ground and not calling her. Am I doing the right thing? What is wrong with this girl?
Yao - who feels like she controls my life
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER IN A SECOND BUT FIRST...
Let me tell you something straight out of the gate: whenever a girl gives you mixed signals, it’s a sign that her Interest Level is LOW. That’s the hard and fast rule.
Now, you say that you and Meghan had a rough breakup. The fact that you broke up in the first place means that you shattered an ironclad rule: YOU CAN’T GO BACK. Remember what “The System” says: One shot per girl per lifetime. If it doesn’t work, then it’s over, and you can never go back. Simple as that.
Your feelings for Meghan came back because she dropped you. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “If you had dropped her, your feelings for her wouldn’t have come back.”
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Just by the fact that you have to ask whether you should make a move to make Meghan your girlfriend again, you should know that the answer is a resounding NO. So you’ve already answered your own question, my friend, and you don’t even realize it.
When Meghan tells you that she doesn’t know whether she can go out with you when you ask, it’s because her Interest Level...
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