SO MANY THINGS WRONG HERE...WHY CAN'T HE SEE IT?
THE SYSTEM says that women help you when they like you, they treat you well when they like you and oh, you can actually see them on a regular basis because they live in your city and NOT another country. Well, my man couldn't get anything going on any of those fronts with this girl!
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I’m in my early twenties and work in England as a freelance journalist. I study and travel a lot. I met Jewel, who lives in Egypt, while on my travels. For over half a year we’ve been in contact. When we were together she was all over me and wanted to meet me again in Egypt, as I’m going there this summer for a while.
But recently she has shut down and seems distant. I think it’s because I posted a picture of me and a Russian girl on social media (we are just friends and journalist colleagues), but I think Jewel may have gotten jealous even though I explained the situation to her. Soon afterwards, she started telling me about guys who were flirting with her (an obvious attempt to make me jealous). I was a bit distant with her afterwards as I felt it was manipulative and immature. But when I came back to her, she was still a bit off. I want to call her but she uses her university exams as an excuse not to talk. I’m sure she could find time if she really wanted to talk, as she has called me during busy study periods before, and would even insist that I call her. I tried getting her to open up over text, but she refuses to explain what’s wrong.
Since Jewel has not called me I stopped texting her as much, as I don’t want a texting relationship. Three days ago I texted her in a sweet way that I didn’t want text conversations and could only call, and she got annoyed and I haven’t heard from her since.
What do you think I should do to get Jewel to open up to me and be sweet again? This girl is usually really sweet and supportive and otherwise my type, so I would like things to work out.
Wali - who finds it hard to operate from a distance
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER IN A SECOND BUT FIRST...
Right off the bat you have a problem here. You haven’t asked yourself the all-important question: which one of us is going to move? Is Jewel going to relocate to England? Are you moving to Egypt? This girl is in a foreign country. Since you aren’t citizens of each other’s country, you can’t possibly realize what you’re up against here. Jewel would have to move to England and apply to be a citizen for starters, and only then would she would be truly available. Or vice-versa – you’d have to move and do the same. Like my Uncle Jethro Love says, “The odds of this thing working out are just horrible.”
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And now Jewel has shut down and seems distant. So now you have another problem! Besides being in a foreign land, her Interest Level has dropped tremendously. And you shouldn’t be on social media, pal. It just gets you into trouble. Now you have...
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