"HOOKING UP" MEANS NOTHING!
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I’m 21 and in college. Last semester I moved into a new dorm, down the hall from this gorgeous girl named Rose. I didn’t know her name, but I would see her out at bars all the time. Whenever we saw each other, I gave her a hug, said “Hi” and walked away. She was so hot that I thought she was out of my league and I was embarrassed that I didn’t know her name. I think she must have thought that I was uninterested, because she always looked a little hurt.
One night I saw Rose at a party and she came on to me hard. We had a very romantic night physically, and I saw her again the next weekend. For the next month, we were basically just bedroom buddies. I’d call her around 11, and she’d walk down the hall to my room.
Unfortunately, my feelings took over; I really fell for her and we started hanging out much more. For the next two months, we were basically boyfriend and girlfriend, though it was nothing official. She told me she thought I was a “mystery,” and that’s why she liked me.
Anyway, she eventually took a trip to Australia with her family, and when she returned, things were completely different. When I called her, she always had an excuse why we couldn’t hang out. Eventually, it got so bad that I felt hurt, so I stopped calling and acted like jerk whenever I saw her.
Eventually I confronted Rose and she told me she just wanted to slow down, and that she wasn’t looking for a relationship. In the past month we haven’t gone out at all. I really like this girl, and I am really confused as to why it fell apart. I feel like she lost interest as soon as I was not a Challenge anymore. The problem is, I can be a Challenge to someone I don’t know, but if I like a girl it’s impossible for me to tell her that I don’t want to hang out.
Did Rose just want a casual hook-up, or did I do something wrong?
Engelbert - who somehow messed it up
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I see that you don’t have my book because you made a HUGE mistake straight out of the gate. When you start by getting physical with a girl right away, YOU CANNOT SEE RED FLAGS, AND IT ARTIFICIALLY RAISES YOUR INTEREST LEVEL. As a consequence, you start doing and saying things that you wouldn’t normally if you weren’t physically intimate with the girl. Dude, you have to get to know the girl first before getting physical.
Another problem is that you’re only 21 years old. I would have to assume that Rose is between 18 and 22 since she’s in college with you. In my book I point out that the divorce and breakup rates for girls of that age is the highest in the country because they are simply not grown up.
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So you and Rose were bedroom buddies and you weren’t even dating her. All of this happened much too fast. Also, Rose was living too close to you. You should have been...
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