THEY'RE BOTH MARRIED AND SHE THINKS HE'S LIKE HER BROTHER - OUTSIDE OF THAT THIS HAS A GREAT CHANCE...
I think playing the lottery will give you a better chance than this guy has with his relationship
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112: Cheating on her is his way to solve his marital problems? He thinks this is a good idea?
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I am 34 and have been a “nice guy” all my life. Since childhood, right through adolescence, high school and in college, I’ve always yearned for the right girl, someone simple, charming and totally in awe of me. I am very shy and not good at communication, especially when it comes to humor/wit/sarcasm, etc. The sad part is that I have always known my weaknesses but have never been able to overcome them.
I’ve been married seven years, and have a five-year-old kid. But my relationship with my wife is not fantastic. She has not instilled any spark into my life romantically or sexually. With each passing day we are growing further away from one another. She knows this and tracks my social media and phone activities to find evidence of an extramarital affair. I wish I could have an affair with another woman, but I am too asocial of a person.
I have one hope, however. I’ve become good friends with Eva at work. She seeks help from me for every little thing and loves to talk to me. We go for coffee together once a week to chat about our personal lives as well. She is a mother and has been married for seven years. She is my type, in the sense that she is not very loud and socially active (though she has lots of male friends). And she is quite hot and charming.
The problem is that the more I help her the more she thinks I am acting brotherly. She has even said a few times that I’m like her sister, to which I have raised objections.
Doc, I am fantasizing about winning Eva’s heart. I don’t have any clue how to do this, given the fact that once she gets home she has a kid and husband to look after, and it’s the same with me. But even after work hours she texts me, suggesting that she thinks of me outside of work. So it’s a very tricky situation because first, it’s a workplace relationship where liberties can’t be taken, and second I doubt Eva’s intentions. I don’t know if she’s looking for just fun or a serious relationship outside of marriage.
Can you coach me how to overcome my doubts and turn this situation into a winning one for myself and fill Eva’s life with love? Also, I would appreciate if you could change me into a winner from the dumb, frustrated personality I am!
Otis - who can’t seem to figure it out
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
When you join the DOC LOVE CLUB, over 100 one-hour radio shows immediately become available to you. In my shows you are taught how to be humorous, witty, and sarcastic. So join the club, and I will remedy your situation, my friend. I will show you how to make your personality grow and make you more outgoing. You will become a winner not only with women, but a winner in life.
What is happening with your wife, Otis, is that her Interest Level is going steadily south: from 80%...to 75%...to 65%, etc. It’s dropping slowly, but make no mistake, it’s dropping. In other words, you’re in real trouble. When it hits 49%, there won’t be anything left to salvage. But you don’t know that because you don’t have “The System.”
Why is your wife tracking your movements to find evidence of an extramarital affair? She’s a little nuts, Otis. You don’t even have the personality to get another woman and apparently she thinks you have girlfriends! What’s going on with her?
Why didn't you sign up for my free 7-day dating course yet? Did you not understand the word FREE?
Nevertheless, you want a girlfriend in addition to your wife. What are you going to do with this girlfriend? Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You don’t even know what to do with your wife!” So how can you expect to handle a new woman when you can’t handle the one you’ve got?
Now you’re infatuated with Eva. And you’re blabbing about your personal life to her. Otis, you shouldn’t be talking about your personal life to another woman. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “You have to show some class here!”
Eva might be hot and charming – but you’re married and she’s married! And you’re just a good friend to her. Brotherly, sisterly -- whatever you want to call it. That’s the way Eva looks at you – as nothing but a sibling. Plus you’re both married!
Now think about this realistically, which you haven’t been doing. Eva has to leave her husband and child and get divorced, and you have to leave your wife and child and get divorced in order for something to happen between the two of you. Do you realize how much has to happen for you to get together with Eva? And she doesn’t even have an Interest Level in you! My gosh, Otis, she calls you sister!
Here’s the brutal truth of the matter: Eva is looking for fun and nothing more. She views you as her fun-loving sister. There’s nothing more to it.
You can’t divorce your wife, pal, because you will hurt your child. Eva’s not going to leave her husband because she looks at you as a girlfriend. So nothing’s going to happen. Like my cousin General Love says, “It’s just not in the cards.” The odds are one in a trillion that you’re going somewhere with this babe, so stop your worthless fantasizing. It’s nothing but a waste of time.
That said, Otis, you can be changed for the better. Invest in “The System” ASAP and get on my program and I will transform you. And in the process, when you start using my materials, you will raise your wife’s Interest Level and protect your child from being damaged. That’s the most important thing here.
Remember, guys: if she’s married, she’s off limits.