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I’m 38 and I’ve known my wife, Donatella, for 15 years and have been married to her for 12. A year and a half ago, I started noticing a change in my wife’s behavior. She became distant, and our sex life almost disappeared.
For some reason, I thought this condition was going to go away on its own, and I became complacent. Fast forward to last summer. Our relationship took another dive, and any communication between Donatella and me was no longer there, sex was nonexistent and I found myself submerged and fully focused on my job as an escape from my domestic troubles. And that was okay, or so I thought, because I am bringing in a good salary and the family needs it.
It was not until we had a major discussion one night that my wife revealed to me that she had grown apart from me and no longer loved me. I was stunned, because I thought we had just been going through a temporary rough patch that would eventually improve on its own. I refused to accept what Donatella was telling me and I reacted in a negative way. I became angry to the point where I made a big scene at home, yelling and screaming, and causing her to leave the house with our kids. I then realized that the next step for her was to divorce me.
For the next three months, I became a roller coaster of emotions. I lost a bunch of weight and couldn’t even sleep. I’ve become paranoid with the thought of Donatella and the kids leaving me, and suddenly I’ve found myself trapped in a nightmare of depression.
Doc, do you have any suggestions for getting my wife back? She’s retreated to her sister’s house with the kids and I can’t get her to talk to me for more than a few seconds, which is only to deal with practical issues having to do with our children. I’m afraid that she’s going to find someone else now that we’re not living under the same roof. And I’m also afraid – though I have no proof thus far – that she may have already found someone to replace me.
I still can’t believe that Donatella would throw all those years into the garbage over nothing. Please coach me before I lose my mind.
Garry - who is desperate
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.
And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.
You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.
So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you...
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