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Dating Women Advice: Would Bradley Cooper Ever Let A Woman Pay For A Date?


She paid for most everything and is now starting to resent him - you can't date women if you're broke!  Check out the article below and...

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Dating Women Podcast #69 & 70

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*69:  She wants less of his time than he wants of hers - not good.
*70:  He thought by being a super challenge with a perfect 10 was the right way to go - it wasn't.

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Hey Doc,

I just recently discovered your columns as I was surfing the net trying to find a remedy to my predicament, which has lately been boiling in my head for a good solution.

So here it is. I met Bella about a year and half ago over the social network. I got her Interest Level high within a short period of time, and she was yearning to meet me. The meeting went quite well. She was stunning to look at and very friendly. I took her to an expensive restaurant, where she offered to pay for everything. Being a broke guy, I gladly accepted the offer, as any sensible man in my position would do. From there we began dating, but a few months into the relationship, things slowly began to change. I don’t know if it was because she was paying for a lot of our dates or something else. For instance, when we were talking on the phone she hung up on me, giving me an absolutely ridiculous excuse afterwards which didn’t even make sense for why she did it.

The first time this kind of thing happened I forgave Bella, but as time went on, I finally blew up and told her off, and she promised to change. There have been lots of ups and downs that have transpired in our lives, both personally and together. Recently things have been terrible between me and her, and we haven’t been in touch for over two weeks. My gut tells me to just leave Bella for good, but my guilty mind tells me that I should stay and repay her for everything that she’s done for me.

Doc, what do you think I should do about Bella? Should I just forget her or try to patch things up and repay all that she’s given me and done for me?

Wiz - who can’t get her out of his head

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Hi Wiz,

First of all, you can’t push a woman’s Interest Level up if she hasn’t met you in the flesh. After she meets you, then – AFTER YOU PASS THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION TEST – you can possibly ratchet up her interest, but not until then. So you’re mistaken to think that you can do it over the social network alone. She might be friendly and nice to you over the internet, but remember that you haven’t yet passed the physical.

Now let me get this straight. Why in the world would a broke guy take a date to an expensive restaurant?

You should have met Bella for an hour at a Starbucks instead, where you could have gotten away for eight bucks for two cups of coffee. Now, if you’d met her at a party and talked to her for an hour, it would have made sense to go to a restaurant, but still not an expensive one. But not when you haven’t even set eyes on her – and she hasn’t set eyes on you -- in person.

Instead of calling yourself a sensible guy for letting Bella pay for your date, what you really meant to say was that you were a classless guy. A man without a proper upbringing lets a woman pay for a date. A slob with no social skills lets her pay. So...

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