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He's blaming her parents for stopping their wedding when he should blame himself because he veered from the principles of THE SYSTEM.
Thank you for your materials. “The System” has changed my life. I went from wimpus americanus to Casanova almost overnight.
Five months ago I met Kristina. We hit it off completely. Her interest was in the upper 90s the entire time. I did all the right things as far as waiting to call her and remaining a Challenge. She checks all the boxes as a keeper and is certainly a Flexible Giver. Unfortunately I let my Interest Level hit the upper 90s as well. Long story short, I ended up proposing to Kristina on a beach while on vacation.
Things were going great at that time. It was a bit stressful planning the wedding because we had such a hard time finding an available venue on such short notice. Finally, after finding the perfect place for the wedding, Kristina’s parents suddenly wanted to have a chat with her. After a three-hour talk, she decided that she wanted to postpone the wedding until we got to know each other better.
I got upset because I smelled a rat. Kristina’s parents told her she was moving way too fast and needed to slow it down. She insisted to me that she didn’t pull out of the wedding because of her parents, but I don’t buy it. She also insisted she wants to stay together. After a two-hour talk I told her I wouldn’t play second fiddle to her parents for the rest of my life and that I needed to think about things. I feel that what she should have done was say, “Thanks Mom and Dad, I appreciate your concern, but this wedding is happening.”
What should I do? I feel like Kristina doesn’t respect me now and that she is unreliable. I thought she was the one, but now I’m not so sure.
Coach me, Doc!
Tyrod - who is suddenly confused
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First of all, I want to thank you very much for having the ability to set your ego aside and realize that women don’t like Wimps!
You might have left your Wimpdom behind, pal, but unfortunately you’re not going by “The System” with Kristina. You’ve only known this girl for five months! What’s the big rush to get hitched? To you Psych majors, you don’t bring up marriage until at least a year to a year and a half after you meet the girl. Then, at the end of the second year together, you buy her a ring. So you really rushed this thing, Tyrod. There’s no other way to put it. You went way, way, way too fast. The problem is that after five months you don’t really know Kristina. Five months is not nearly enough to know a girl you’re going to spend 40 or 50 years -- and the rest of your life -- with. So this was a major blunder on your part.
Then you got the rug pulled out from under you by Kristina’s parents. The sad part of this entire situation is that they are right. That’s the problem here. You set yourself up for this mess, Tyrod. You said you know “The System,” but on the Doc Love Club Radio Show we often talk about how you have to...
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