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He's married but that's no problem because she's married too.  Ummm.....NO NO NO AND NO.

It's bad enough that she's still legally tied to her husband but he's tied to his wife.  This situation can only end one way - DISASTER.


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Hey Doc,

I didn’t know about you until 20 minutes ago when I discovered you on line, but I wish I had last February when I found Maddie. We met online and we flirted. I’m in the United States and she’s in Canada. We are both married and not in the best situations, and it seemed like we were both looking for something.

When I found Maddie she took my breath away. We talked and messaged whenever we could and had an amazing time when we could get together.

Whenever I left her after a few days together, I felt empty. I hated that we didn’t have more time together.

Anyway, fast forward to two weeks ago. I got a text at midnight from Maddie asking what I’m up to, then a quick “I think we need to go back to friendship mode for now.”The reason is that Maddie claims that her other half – her husband -- is now making an effort.

I know you can only believe one side of a story because you only get information from one person. But

I love this girl and I want her to be with me.

Maddie and I give each other what we’re missing -- life and a chance to be happy. But now I’ve tried to cut off all contact with her and I had to be stern and tell her to block and delete me so we wouldn’t talk anymore.

She claims I’m her best friend and she can’t be without me and she feels like I’m just leaving her. But she told me that since I’m moving on she can’t be angry at that, and if I want to be with another woman it’s none of her business.

I don’t want this and I’ve been trying to give Maddie space so she’ll realize what she’s missing without me. And I think she does because she won’t seem to take no for an answer as far as being in contact goes.

She knows what she means to me. I know she wants to be with me but it’s not that easy to obtain visas to get into the United States.

Doc, what should I do? Should Maddie and I be lovers or friends?

Gordy - who’s all hung up


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Hi Gordy,

Wait a minute here. You’re telling me that you’re married and that Maddie is married? That means that you have to get divorced and she has to get divorced. Then she has to move to the United States and become an American citizen. You have a lot of work to do here! I hope you realize what you’re involved in, my friend!

The reason Maddie took your breath away is because you’re miserable with your wife and she can’t stand the sight of her husband. Anybody would look good to you, and anyone would look good to Maddie. That’s what’s going on here, Gordy.

You say that you’re devastated and empty when Maddie isn’t with you. That’s too bad. But do you realize that you’re... 

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  • VJ says:

    If they do it with you, they’ll do it to you, and each time you look in the mirror, that’s the only person you should blame.

  • Matt says:

    Doc Love telling it straight as usual. It’s amazing how on point you are with every single article, honestly I can’t get enough. The male ego is incredibly blinding when it comes to women, thanks for showing us the light! I feel bad for this guy doc, If he came across your book earlier and put it to use, he would never be in this situation. One of your most important lessons is controlling your interest level, and unfortunately this guys seems to be up in the clouds, to the woman he’s not even married!

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