HE WANTS TO KNOW HOW TO KEEP HIS GIRLFRIEND AFTER SHE WAS SEXTING ANOTHER GUY???
THE SYSTEM says that LOYALTY is #1 and when your girl is sexting another dude then she fails in that particular category in a big way - read more below.
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I’ve been in a relationship with Stella for six years.
The only issue we have is that she doesn’t like to get physically romantic with me because she feels bad about herself and has a lack of Self-Confidence. However, I give her lots of attention and compliments on how good-looking she is, but it doesn’t seem to help.
So I’ve accepted that one very important lack in our relationship, holding out the hope that Stella will one day get over her Self-Confidence issues. Last month Stella suddenly had a huge mood change. She jumped on me and couldn’t have enough of me physically. But I found out that she was sexting with someone else, which turned her on and she used it on me. Because of the sexting with another man, she found herself sexy and attractive again.
The problem is that now the sexting with the other guy (who is 20 years older than her) has made Stella interested in him. Because of our mutual past, Stella thinks I’m a complete pushover and the other guy isn’t. Because he’s the big Challenge for her right now and everything is new, she wants to have a relationship with this other guy, and she’s told me so. Her Interest Level in him is very high.
The question now is how I can raise her Interest Level in me again. I’m still reading “The System” but haven’t figured out what to do if you already have a long relationship and you need to fix this kind of thing. The point is that I’m not new to Stella. She knows me and she knows my “bad” sides (too emotional sometimes, which means a lack of Self-Confidence, and also that I’m no Challenge to her). How can I be a Challenge if we have a relationship of six long years?
What I think is that Stella needs to give me a chance to prove that I’ve got what it takes to satisfy her. I told her that I believe I could give her what she wants. I’m a salesman for a living and when I have to sell something to a customer, I analyze his or her needs. That way I can create the desire for the customer to want to buy my product.
But if she doesn’t tell me what she likes, how am I supposed to be able to give it to her?
Nap - who can’t seem to sell her
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
You shouldn’t be with a woman for six years. You should only be with her for two years before marrying her. You’ve got too much time in with Stella, and she’s always wondering – and you don’t realize this – “Where is this thing going?”The central problem here is that Stella is in a relationship with you but she’s not...
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