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Dating Women Advice: 3 Powerful Tips For Success

WANT MORE DATING SUCCESS?  YOU MUST KNOW THESE 3 THINGS

Dating women seems like it’s easy to do – you’re a dude, she’s a lady – you’re attracted to her so it’s time to just go wing it! Right? Right?

Unfortunately 90% of the guys out there get their Visa and hearts beat up before they make it past a couple dates because they do more wrong that right – but this advice will help you reverse that.

Remember guys, I’m here for you and it’s so easy to connect with me for a FREE 7-day dating course but let’s get you to the good stuff and start you on the path to setting yourself apart from 90% of the guys you’re competing against in the dating scene.

Fortunately, you have my dating relationship education course called THE SYSTEM to guide you in this area.

3 POWERFUL TIPS FOR SUCCESS #1

Never Be Uptight About The Process

Let me break this concept down to you:

YOU WILL BE REJECTED.

You can’t let it affect you – it happens to everyone. You’re a tall guy with blonde hair and her dream guy is Mario Lopez all the way back to the poster she had in her bedroom from his “Saved By The Bell” days (Google that one if you’re not sure what I’m talking about!)

Point being is that you will not appeal to every girl in every situation – or maybe you do appeal to her but she’s got a boyfriend or a husband – or she’s moving 1,000 miles away in a week or (etc., etc., etc.)

They must be INTERESTED and AVAILABLE for you to have a shot (obviously) and you won’t hit 100% of the pitches thrown your way. The idea is not to be embittered, uptight, depressed or have any lasting negative emotion when you’re pursuing her because you never know when the right one is going to turn the corner.

If you start getting a “chip on your shoulder” because of all the rejection you’re taking then Ms. Right is going to pick up on your being bitter/desperate. Believe me when I tell you that you’ll be much better off if you look at every woman like a salesman looks at a potential customer – he approaches, gives his best pitch and not everyone buys.

He doesn’t wander around being angry at the prospects that didn’t purchase because he’s too busy making new proposals.

In summary it’s okay to be aggravated/angry/frustrated when you get flushed by a girl you really like as long as you keep it in perspective and move quickly onto the next girl!


Call my dating women radio show if you want advice from me on this – I take your calls every week (get the #'s and details by clicking this link).

(By the way, if you can't wait to talk to me on my radio show or you don't want to go public then order my phone coaching here).


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3 POWERFUL TIPS FOR SUCCESS #2

Make Her Laugh

You might be thinking “I’m not funny.”

Fair enough.

GET funny.

Quickly.

I know you probably won’t be groomed by Jimmy Kimmel to take his place someday – but that doesn’t mean you can’t improve your humor. Thousands of times I’ve heard this from women: “I want a man to make me laugh.” They like to have fun on dates guy – dates aren’t meant to be a serious thing – they’re an escape from real life and problems – a chance to chill and relax for a few hours.

You don’t have to be a stand up comedian either – you just have to learn to have light and funny banter and there are a ton of ways to do this. I’m detailing some below but if you’re looking for more ideas, call me on my Dating Women Radio Show every Wednesday at 5:00 p.m. PT/8:00 p.m. ET.

*Watch the Cary Grant movies – one of the BEST at light/funny banter.

*Take an improv or stand up class (no, you won’t be performing but the classes will help you tweak your funny bone).

*Get a book on being funnier.

*Pay attention to people that are funny and ask how they do it if you can – sometimes they won’t be able to explain it but it’s worth a shot.

*Develop in your mind that she likes you to keep it light and funny so groove your mind and actions to do just that.

MORE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

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I've interviewed THOUSANDS of woman asking them why they CHOOSE to stay with one man versus another.

What I've LEARNED from women - I TEACH to men.

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3 POWERFUL TIPS FOR SUCCESS #3

Really Get To Know Her

Ask questions and listen for the answers – ask follow up questions on what you heard and listen more. No, you’re not an interviewer where she feels as if she’s on the hot seat. Think more along the lines of Jimmy Kimmel or Jimmy Fallon – that late night talk show banter where the guest (in this case, your date) is doing most of the talking but the host (in this case, you) is moving things along by really listening and interjecting funny stuff based on what’s going on in the conversation.

In fact, it’s great to watch those guys interview people because they’re very adept at the light and funny banter you want to develop and by engaging with her this way she will relax and be more comfortable with you.

That’s the whole object – you want her to feel as if you’re different than 90% of the guys out there and if you internalize my materials I guarantee you will be because many guys just fumble around dates while you’ll have a game plan to get to know her as she’s totally at ease, having fun and wondering when the next date will be.

It’s really not rocket science but you do have to TAKE YOUR TIME and look at this as a campaign instead of a “I’m doing it all on THIS date” type of way (which many guys do – they want to get to the relationship so fast that they miss just building something slowly with her).

One of the chief complaints women has is that men don’t listen – and you will be different my friend because with me on your side you’ll learn how to stand out in her eyes.

Hi Garry,

 

As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.

 

And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.

 

You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.

 

So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.

 

Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.

 

Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,

 

Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.

 

Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!

 

But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.

 

Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.

 

Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.

 

Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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