SHE BLOCKED HIM ON SOCIAL MEDIA???
He didn't do too well in his pursuit of her because he managed to get BLOCKED on social media by her - ouch! Check out the article below and...
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First, a shout-out to you from Brazil!
Here’s my situation. I met Isabelle in a college class. At first I wasn’t interested in her since I never detected any buying signals, but after asking her about work and term papers via Facebook, she began to flirt with me, asking me personal questions, to the point where she said she wanted to see and hear me play guitar for her if I had time someday.
Anyway, eventually I got her number and I did make the mistake of talking too much with her over the phone, but I didn’t text her for two months when I felt I was too much all over her. Finally I told her that I’d call her to see my band play, but the band broke up, so I texted her to have a beer with me at the college bar. But it turned out that she didn’t even read the text.
All of this happened when we were on summer break. After she never answered my beer invitation, I threw her number away, but once we got back to classes she kept staring at me, and acting super nervous during the very few times I chatted with her (it was all just small talk). Then she began flirting with another guy right in front of my face. At first I thought that she was into him, but as time went by, I got the impression that she was just trying to rub something in my face. I got this idea because she kept looking at me whenever she was talking with this other guy.
One night I suffered a lapse of Self-Control. I texted Isabelle while drunk, telling her that she didn’t like the other guy, and that I knew she was trying to make me jealous. We proceeded to have a little fight through text messages, then she blocked me on all social media.
I disappeared for two weeks from college after our fight, and once I came back, she kept staring at me and showing me positive body language even though I tried to ignore her. So my question is this: is Isabelle lost or not? Do I still have a shot with her, or is she just trying to annoy me and get back at me?
Baz - who has trouble figuring her out
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I may have been able to find her, but I never would have been able to KEEP her without you, Jeff, and the "System."
DOC LOVE'S ANSWER
First of all, when you started flirting with Isabelle, why didn’t you immediately ask for her phone number? The very first step that I talk about in “The System” is to ASK FOR THE PHONE NUMBER. That way you will test her Interest Level by her reaction. You either don’t have my book, and if you do, you’re certainly not going by its principles.
Now wait a minute, here, Baz. You don’t go after a girl and then disappear for two months. You ask her out instead of murdering Challenge by spending all your time on the phone with her. Man, you don’t know the first thing to do with a girl. You’d better memorize my book ASAP!
When you had the idea that Isabelle was trying to rub another guy in your face, it’s called PROJECTION. Just because Isabelle was talking to a guy, how do you know she was coming on to him? Did she actually say that she liked him? You’re doing a lot of guessing and assuming here. And you’re still not asking her out, and that’s the main point here.
But you got bombed, then texted Isabelle and accused her of all kinds of things. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “Why are you making a fool out of yourself?” To you Psych majors, when you drink, you lose all Self-Control. When you drink, you do things you wouldn’t normally do. And dude, you’re fighting with a girl that you haven’t taken out on a date even one time! And do you really think that arguing with Isabelle is going to ramp up her Interest Level? Most people argue with their partner after they’ve dated, but you’re fighting with Isabelle before you’ve even taken her out! It’s very obvious that you don’t have “The System” because you would have realized that since Isabelle has not responded to any of your advances, she has absolutely no interest in you.
Now, when you get blocked on all of Isabelle’s social media, what does that tell you? It means you’re out forever, Baz!
Isabelle isn’t lost, pal, she has no romantic interest in you. Hey, she just likes to stare at guys she doesn’t like! She likes to stare at guys she blocked on social media! The truth is that she gave you no real buying signals whatsoever. Think about it. She didn’t go out with you. She didn’t return your offer for a date. She doesn’t return calls. She couldn’t care less! What else does she have to do to demonstrate her lack of interest in you? But you think that because she stares at you for a second that all of a sudden you’re back in the game with her. But it all means nothing except that you’re OUT. Now do you get it?
You don’t have a shot with Isabelle, Baz. You don’t have anything with her. Like my cousin General Love says, “You don’t even have a bullet!” She’s not trying to annoy you or get back at you. She’s just playing with your head and you’re biting on it because your Interest Level is 100%. Since your interest is through the roof, every time Isabelle gives you a little bit of anything, you blow it completely out of proportion. The truth is that Isabelle has absolutely no interest in ever going out with you in public. You had your shot way back when, when you talked about your band – which no longer exists.
Remember, guys: if she won’t go out with you, you don’t have a chance.
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