SHE'S GOT QUITE A PAST
She treats him great but he found out she's had a LOT of lovers before him - is this a dealbreaker or not?
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Dating Women Podcast Episode 49
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*Is she interested or not? We diagnose his dating woes
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I am 28 and have been following your principles for a year now, which has massively improved my game. I met Meredith, 22 and a perfect “10” and asked her out. She made it clear that she was very attracted to me. I applied Challenge and it worked perfectly. I have successfully made this woman pursue me. She even told me that she thinks I am cute and that she finds men from my country attractive (I am English and she is American). I have had five dates with her and kissed her on the second date. When I did, she told me she’d been waiting for me to do it and what took me so long.
But here’s the problem, and it’s serious. I am fairly conservative, and when I snooped Meredith’s Facebook and Twitter accounts I discovered that she is a raving liberal Feminista. She is constantly ranting on feminist themes and seems obsessed with the subject. I have carefully avoided politics, but we are on opposite sides of the spectrum, and I find the feminism cult abhorrent and immoral. She has spent the past year bashing Trump and his supporters (I happen to be a Trump supporter) on social media. To make matters worse, from reviewing her Instagram account, I see that Meredith has had many, many lovers (as in double digit figures) and she sleeps around. She has openly talked about her sex life on social media for everyone to see. She doesn’t know I dug up this information, but since finding it out, I am very troubled. This is not classy behavior and I don't know if I should continue pursuing her when my gut is telling me to end it.
I find it surprising that Meredith is taken with me, as I am generally very assertive and dominant and women can sometimes be slightly intimidated by me since I work in a high powered finance job. With the exception of the data I dug up, Meredith has not shown any Red Flags and has been submissive and accepting of my advances. She has gone on every date out of the five I’ve asked her on.
Do you think I should give Meredith a fair chance and ignore her past? To be honest, I don’t know if I can ignore it. Do you think if a relationship develops, Meredith could grow out of her Feminista past? Do you think I could I influence her to reform her ways?
Herbert - who’s never faced anything like it before
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First if all, you have to remember that you have a 22-year-old girl on your hands here. And remember what I say in my book about girls 18 to 22 years old – they’re not grown up yet. You’re 28, so you should be dating someone who is 25 or older. So right here you have a problem, pal. Otherwise, everything you’ve been doing with Meredith has been perfect.
Now, Meredith might have all kinds of feminist propaganda in her head that you don’t like, but she doesn’t apply them to you, which is the most important thing. So when she brings up something you don’t agree with, just keep your trap shut and don’t get into it with her – that’s the foolproof way of heading off any arguments. When she tells you how much she digs Hillary Clinton, just say “Yup, she’s a great woman,” and move onto something else. To you Psych majors, if you know that something is going to lead to an argument, don’t get sucked into it. There are many couples who have different political viewpoints, but they don’t talk about it because neither one of them is going to bend and they know that if they do broach the subject an argument will ensue. In your case, Meredith doesn’t even know how you feel, which is even better! All you have to do is say yes to whatever she brings up, then just change the subject.
Now, why in the world would a girl who likes going to bed with the entire soccer team want to brag about it? You can put up with Meredith’s politics as long as she stops sleeping around since she’s with you. But why would she want to brag about being a slut? Is this her way of being a rebel or something? But again, what’s important is the way that she treats you.
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However, if you get into a long term relationship with or marry Meredith, this could end up being a problem for you, guy. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “Because of the internet, everyone knows what everyone else is up to nowadays.” The last thing you want is to hear something like, “Hey, Herb, I hear you’re in love with the town tramp!” One major reason for Meredith’s big mouth when it comes to her sex life is that she’s just 22. By the time she’s 25 or 26, hopefully she’ll have outgrown this juvenile behavior. But like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “Lots of girls between 18 and 22 like to get around.”
I understand why you’d want to end it with Meredith, but if I were you I would date Meredith as well as other women as an insurance policy. If you continue to see Meredith for a year, hopefully she’ll stop bragging about going to bed with the entire football team.
Meredith isn’t intimidated by you, I hate to tell you, Herbert. But don’t forget that INTEREST LEVEL CUTS EVERYTHING. She’s with you now, she’s not sleeping with anyone else, and she’s not voting for Hillary. That’s what a high level of interest will accomplish.
And by the way, don’t ever utter the word “submissive” around this girl – she’ll go nuts! Submissive means giving into something she doesn’t really want to do because she has low Interest Level. Meredith is not being submissive because she has HIGH Interest Level.
Yes, you should give Meredith another chance and ignore her past, but as I said earlier, you should be dating other babes. And I would not make Meredith my girlfriend at this point. Yes, she can grow out of her Feminista past – but what if she doesn’t? That’s the part you have to be concerned about.
Can you make her reform her ways? No. Don’t attempt anything like that, Herbert. Just keep your mouth shut, otherwise you’ll get into arguments with her and that won’t help anything.
Remember, guys: when you get into the dating ring, protect your heart at all times.
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