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The male ego amazes me - here's a guy whose girl TOLD HIM UP FRONT that her feelings toward him were hot and cold but he went ahead and got into a relationship anyway.

Guys - BELIEVE IT NOW when she tells you something like that.  You want a girl that's all about you CONSISTENTLY from date 1 through the 40th year of marriage.  Anything else and you're WASTING YOUR TIME like this guy who as you might guess, ended up in PAIN.  YOU CANNOT FIX EVERYTHING JUST BECAUSE YOUR EGO SAYS YOU CAN.  If she's not into you - she's not into you.

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READER'S QUESTION

Hey Doc,

Crystal and I just split up and I’m not sure if I should try to reconcile with her or just move on.

We met almost two years ago online and have been dating for about a year and a half. We got off to a rocky start because she had hot and cold feelings towards me – she never said why. But after a while she said her feelings towards me were great. Well, a few months later, she started having a crisis and told me by phone that her feelings were mixed.


I came to her apartment to end things and retrieve my personal belongings when she said that she was just under a lot of stress (she had a heavy load at her job) and that she wanted things to work out. Everything seemed fine for a whole year until during one talk she said she didn’t know what she wanted in life, which culminated in a fight. The next day she apologized and blamed what she said on her recent job change. A few days later she dropped a bomb on me and said that she continues to have mixed feelings, which led to us ending things.


So we met up again to retrieve things and we talked. She revealed that she thought she had mixed feelings for me because I didn’t play hard to get. But she said that she hoped we could work things out but thought I should know.


I called Crystal the next week to catch up and ask her to meet up to give things another shot, and she agreed but she said she’s afraid of hurting me and that she’s afraid her feelings towards me would change again.


Should I stay or should I go?


Leandro - whose head is spinning

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DOC LOVE'S ANSWER

Hi Leandro,

You say that you and Crystal just split up. Now let me explain something to you: when couples split up, it means that the Interest Level of one of the two people is below 50%. And 90% of the time, it’s the woman whose interest has plummeted.


Let me explain something else. A woman who has mixed feelings towards you has an Interest Level of 40% to 49%. When you say that she runs hot and cold, it means her interest is below 50%. The reason she’s with you is that there’s nobody else around for her at this time. But the guy thinks that just because she’s with him, she likes him. But her interest is so low that she has to run hot and cold, and it can never rise up over 50%.


And you have to remember this. A wife whose Interest Level is 49% will tell herself that she’s finished with her husband, but she won’t actually leave until her Interest Level is 39%. In the meantime, she’ll get some plastic surgery, save a little money, get herself together, and then she’ll leave. You’re in a very similar situation, in that Crystal is just dating you because she’s waiting for the right moment to split.


But Crystal says that she has a work crisis, which accounts for her hot and cold feelings. Like my cousin

Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “This is garbage.” To you Psych majors, when a woman has a crisis, it doesn’t lower her Interest Level. Only YOU can do things wrong – that’s when her interest drops. So she’s blaming this job crisis for her weak feelings for you and one has nothing to do with the other.

Your real problem is that...

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