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Hey Doc,

I’ve been your student and a member of the Doc Love Club since 2013. Your teachings are amazing and have really opened my eyes and given me more control and discipline over my life. As you always say, this stuff flows!

Here’s some background on my situation. My buddy and Megyn went out seven years ago. He broke up with her and is now married. He says it’s perfectly fine for me to date her. I asked him whether it was okay out of respect and courtesy.

So what is your advice on dating a buddy’s ex? What should I avoid saying or doing?

Megyn and I have now been dating for three months. She scores very high in the categories of FLEXIBLE and GIVING. Her Interest Level is at “robbing banks with me.” She’s very respectful and loves to be at home. I date her according to “System” principles as much as I can (though it’s tough!).

Now here are some specific issues I need to address or think about. I know nothing about Megyn’s Loyalty. How do I test it? She got divorced just a year ago. I of course know this, but she hasn’t confided in me about it yet. How should I address it? I would like to find out why she got a divorce, and if it had anything to do with Loyalty.

Megyn is a knockout, so I need to be 100% sure of her Loyalty, since she gets hit on plenty. My radar is up.

Next, she seems to have short attention span (for example, she doesn’t follow through with hobbies, projects, etc.). Will this carry over into her relationships?

Finally, she’s a little insecure. She says “I love you” and other cheesy stuff constantly, and tries to get me to parrot it back. Being a Spartan, I defuse it with humor, and surprise, surprise, she finds it a CHALLENGE. Doc, any tips on how to address this behavior or should I just carry on as I’m doing?

Ralf - who’s trying to do everything right


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Hi Ralf,

You don’t have to say or do anything when it comes to Megyn’s ex. Just don’t bring the guy up – it’s that simple. Don’t talk about him.

If your buddy is now married to somebody else and he dated Megyn seven years ago, then you’re off the hook as far as he’s concerned. But if they had only broken up two weeks ago, then you couldn’t go out with her. A guy will say that it’s perfectly okay for you to date his ex if he drops her a month earlier and not mean it. But in this case he did it seven years ago, and he’s now happily married. And he was the one who did the dumping – at least so he says. But maybe he didn’t. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You know how guys BS in order to protect their egos.” The point here is that if your buddy and Megyn broke up recently, he might say it was okay for you to go out with her, but down deep it would hurt his feelings.

So now you have three months in with Megyn. At the end of six months you’ll be able to... 

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