Dating Women Advice: Would Bradley Cooper Ever Go For A Long-Distance Relationship?

NO WOMEN IN HIS AREA???

​He thinks there are no women around where he lives but is he putting a head trip on himself?

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READER'S QUESTION

Hey Doc,

I’m 33 years young and I’ve been a great admirer of your work for over 16 years now. I’ve ordered all of your books and I think you are the greatest of all time!

I have a major problem. I live on an island off the coast of Africa where there are less than 55,000 people and men outnumber women by a large percentage. The terrifying factor here is that the majority of the women are mercenaries, they have more than two kids minimum, are divorced, and a high percentage are not too attractive. They are too materialistic and there is always a problem dealing with their exes. I’m a Christian believer and in church all of the women are married or are divorced and have multiple kids.

I’ve visited other churches in the area and it’s the same dilemma. Now, I have a good friend 60 years of age who I highly respect who told me that back home in South America where he lives, there’s a nice young lady 24 years of age who he recommends for me. She’s hard working, is employed in the medical field, is very respectful and very active in the church. I believe him because he’s like a father to me.

I know that you don’t encourage long-distance dating because it’s a losing proposition, but in my case I’ve tried all options and have no choice. I’m willing to take the risk even if I have to keep failing.

How many times per week should I contact this woman to get to know her by phone, texting or Facebook? What topics should we discuss? How often should I travel to visit her since I’m looking for a marriage partner?

I KNOW THAT YOU DON’T ENCOURAGE THIS SORT OF THING BECAUSE IT’S TOTALLY ANTI-SYSTEM, but in my case I have no choice. I’m getting old and I don’t want to waste my life just sitting and waiting for Ms. Right to show up in an airplane looking for me. It is a one in a million kind of situation. Please let this be an exception to your rules and let me know how you think I could make it work!

Thanks, Doc.

Willie - who hopes you’ll help me find a way


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DOC LOVE'S ANSWER

Hi Willie,

What you’re overlooking in your situation is that you only have to find ONE good woman on your island. Eighty or 90% of the women there might be mercenaries, but there has to be at least ONE who isn’t. And what about a neighboring island? The point is that there has to be a few women who aren’t mercenaries closer to where you live. You can’t tell me that you’ve gone through every single single woman on the island, my friend. You might have attended different churches nearby, but you still haven’t gone through every woman on the island.

Your friend might have a nice young lady for you, Willie, but she lives halfway around the world. It’s not like she lives a hundred or even two hundred miles away. So how are you going to see this woman? How are you going to get the proper amount of time in with her when she lives halfway around the world? Are you going to fly to South America once a month? Do you really have the funds and time to do that?

But that’s not the only problem with this scenario, pal. You really don’t know what this lady wants. In fact, you have no idea whatsoever of anything about her. She might think you’re too old for her, did you think of that? How do you know she’s even going to like you? How do you know you’re going to pass the Physical Attraction Test? And again, how are you going to get any time in with her when she lives halfway around the world? You can’t do it, and the last thing you want is to marry someone because you have so few choices, then she ups and leaves you after she has a kid or two. I’m sure this young woman is nice, but when romantic love is involved, you have to have CHEMISTRY. How are you going to know if you two have chemistry since you live so far away from each other? It’s impossible.

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However, if you insist on trying this thing out, you’ll have to talk to her twice a week by Skype – so you can at least see each other – for a total of two hours a week. You’ll talk to her about her parents and how she was raised, and what she wants out of life and the future.

If you go and visit her for a week, you’ll have to leave and go back to Skyping again, wait a couple of months, then go and visit her again. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “I hope you have lots of money for all this traveling, because you’re going to need it!” Then you’ll have to convince her to come and visit you on your island, because I assume you don’t want to move. But this raises other complications. What if she doesn’t want to move from South America? What if she can’t find a job on your island? What if she doesn’t want to leave her family in South America? What if her father has a business there and he’s going to leave it to her? Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “This thing sounds like a big mess.”

So dude, since you seem determined to have a long distance relationship, why don’t you just cut down the mileage involved? Find someone within five hundred or a thousand miles of where you are, not halfway around the world in South America.

Willie, you’re going to have to find someone closer. South America is simply too far away.

Remember, guys: if you can’t see her face to face two or three times a week, you’ll never really know her.

Hi Atticus,

 

First of all, anytime a woman uses the word “space,” you’re DEAD. And when she utters the word “single,” it’s every bit as bad as the word “space,” and it means that you’re OUT. And in turn it means that her Interest Level has dropped below 50%, which means that there is no recovering.

 

Atticus, the really sad part is that at one time in this relationship, perhaps for a year and a half to two years, Dakota had high Interest Level in you. But due to your deportment, you slowly lowered it. Since I notice that you don’t mention “The System,” you’re not aware of how this process of deterioration works and you don’t even see that it’s going on. If you would have had my book one year before you met Dakota, she would be begging you for babies right now. Instead, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “Just the thought of you touching her makes her skin crawl.”

 

How can you envision a future with Dakota when she doesn’t even want to be in the same room with you? How obvious does she have to make it before you get the drift that you’re not just out, but that you’re COMPLETELY OUT?

 

Dude, Dakota isn’t confused at all – you’re the one who’s confused. She has low Interest Level, you’re out, and you think she has high interest and that you’re still in. That’s why you’re confused – not her.

 

Guy, Dakota doesn’t want you around her family anymore. What’s the point? This thing is over. To you Psych majors, when you lose the girlfriend, you lose the family too. Most guys don’t realize this. What are you going to do, hang around Dakota’s family and show up to her wedding when she marries her real love? So forget her sister and her fiancé. That’s dead, gone, and finished. Sure, they love you – but what good is it when your girlfriend is out of love with you?

 

Dakota’s Facebook posts aren’t mixed signals at all. They are very, very clear signals to you, my friend. They are saying that you are history. And again, why are you going to be friends with a couple related to a woman who dumped you? And you think they’re never going to talk about Dakota with you? Come on, Atticus, how unrealistic can you be?

 

You don’t know what Dakota’s motives are when she contacts you. The only thing you can know for sure is that you’re OUT. You definitely need my book, man. Again, if you’d had “The System,” this disaster never would have happened. But Dakota began to lose interest in you between a year and a half and two years before the breakup, and it slid all the way from 95% to below 50%. And when it hit 49%, she said “I’m out of here!”

 

You can’t approach this situation anymore, Atticus. You have to get my book and memorize it ASAP and find someone new who you haven’t blown it with. The truth is that you’re not rejecting Dakota when you tell her not to contact you because you’re already out.

 

Remember, guys: unless you memorize “The System,” you’ll just repeat the same mistakes with the next woman you meet. 

Hi Garry,

 

As soon as you began having trouble with your wife, you didn’t have “The System” overnighted to you (or buy my immediate downloads - ELECTRONIC SYSTEM or SYSTEM AUDIO). Why not? Do you realize the terrible anguish you could have saved yourself? All that time Donatella’s interest was going from 90%...to 88%...to 85%...to 82%, etc. And as most American men do, you noticed it finally when it hit 60% or 57% or somewhere in that area. “The System” says that this woman probably once loved you. You’ve been with her for 15 years, and she probably loved you for eight to 10 years of that time. After that, because you took her for granted, her Interest Level began to drop.

 

And let me explain something to you. Interest Level doesn’t drop from 100% to 49% in an hour, or overnight, even though that’s the man’s perception of what’s going on. No, like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “It takes time and negligence to erode.” That’s why if you’d have memorized my materials, when it went from 91% to 89% you would have known to start getting into my MAINTENANCE PROGRAM, which will secure the woman wanting to stay with you forever. But like most men in America, you knew how to get her, but you didn’t know how to keep her. That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again. But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.

 

You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. It won’t pull up by itself. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife. You murdered her Interest Level through your deportment.

 

So when your relationship with Donatella took another dive, why didn’t you Google a love doctor for some advice? The question to ask was, why is this woman so turned off when for eight or 10 years she idolized me? Dude, a good salary and taking care of your family financially doesn’t equate to romance to a female.

 

Your wife had been showing you for a long time that you were miles apart. Did she really have to verbalize it and tell you she no longer loved you? You’ve been with her for a long time, and when she finally said it after a deterioration of five or six years, it was only then that you sat up and took notice? Are you blind? And to you Psych majors, when she tells you that she no longer loves you, you are OUT.

 

Now let me explain something else to you. When Interest Level consistently drops, it’s NEVER temporary. It’s only temporary until she leaves. Then it’s final,

 

Now you’re in a fatal depression, pal. If you’d been studying my book all along, it would have made the pain more bearable. So the first thing you have to do now is have “The System” OVERNIGHTED to you and MEMORIZE it (or get an immediate download - SYSTEM AUDIO or ELECTRONIC SYSTEM). Because when it comes to women, you are absolutely clueless, even after you’ve lived with this woman for so long. Garry, I know more about your wife than you do and I’ve never even met the woman. And that’s very sad.

 

Then, like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “You have to suck it up.” When Donatella calls, be polite, don’t talk about your relationship, ask her how much money she needs, send her a check and ask her if there’s anything more you can do for her. Maybe, with time, she’ll meet you for coffee, then maybe a dinner date, then maybe you’ll move into getting her back into the house. Try to talk to your kids as much as possible. You’ll have to apologize for blowing up and making a fool of yourself because when you did that, it only reinforced your wife’s low Interest Level. Because what she said to herself was that she didn’t realize that her husband was so lacking in Self-Control!

 

But no matter what, you still need my book. You need to find out where you went wrong with your wife. Like I said earlier, you’re clueless.

 

Whether or not Donatella has found someone else is beyond your control. So don’t make the problem even worse than it is. Get “The System,” study it like heck, and we’ll do our best to get her back.

 

Donatella didn’t throw away anything over nothing. You stopped romancing your wife and took her for granted. You never told her she was Beautiful. You didn’t treat her like a woman. If you did, she would still be all over you.

 

Remember, guys: to keep your wife in love with you, you have to date her.

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D - 19 October 2017 Reply

Before the newer or non-System guys get carried away, I think it would be good to clarify that last tip about “face to face two or three times a week”. I’m pretty sure Doc was referring JUST TO THIS type of scenario, like communicating online over Skype…

Willie, please tell us the name of this “Mercenary Island”, so all other humanity can avoid it. 🙂

    DocLove - 19 October 2017 Reply

    Correct! Thanks for weighing in.

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