Dating Women Advice: Does Johnny Depp Give His Women Money To Live On?

DON'T GIVE HER MONEY!

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*81:  She claims money isn't an issue - but it is!
http://www.doclove.com/2017/08/12/dwp-081-hes-dating-this-woman-that-claims-money-isnt-an-issue-is-it-true/

*82:  He can't figure her out after 5 dates???
http://www.doclove.com/2017/08/14/dwp-082-hes-been-out-on-5-dates-with-this-woman-and-cant-figure-her-out/

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READER'S QUESTION

Hey Doc,

I own “The System” and I read it quite often, mostly the parts I know are hard for me to follow, such as Self-Control and Challenge. I’m an engineer, 29, and I hold an MBA. I speak French, English and Spanish and have a nice income.

Anyway, I was able to get the attention of a beautiful 35-year-young divorced mom, Nico. Her son is eight and the only interaction he has with his father is the weekly pickup of the boy on the weekend. I dated Nico for two months, paid for meals, I was a Challenge and all was good. Then I got a job offer to assist with a three-year project in a Third World country. I accepted it, then went ahead and started my first period of work there and therefore entered a long-distance relationship with Nico.

At this point everything I did well with Nico at first went to hell since I was now involved in a long-distance relationship and it was hard for me to keep her interest up (which I know is the only thing that matters). I tried calling her once a week and texting her during the day so she knows I still care, but I realized it was a hard job. She has a small income, and I’m a Giver, so I decided to send her money to help a bit with her life. (I know I should only give money to my wife.) Nico is the kind of person who is moody and has a bad temper, and it’s her way or the highway. Based on the Dating Dictionary she fits the definition of a structured woman. We ended up breaking up after three months until I traveled back to America for my vacation, when she contacted me and of course I took her back.

When I returned to work we were constantly arguing on the phone over the smallest things. One day we got into a fight that escalated to the point where both of us lost it. We broke up again. I can’t help feeling like an idiot because I gave Nico over $1,100 in five months, paid for her travel to visit me, hotels, you name it. Right now I can hear all that money going straight down the toilet.

I realize that I’ve answered most of my questions and the only option is to get out and fast! It would be nice if you share this letter with others so they can see that the road to becoming what you coach in your book is full of pitfalls but it’s important to keep trying. I take “The System” as my Bible and have a lot of respect for your work. But here’s an important question: even though I knew I was doing many things wrong, why couldn’t I stop myself from doing them?

Larry - who couldn’t quite stay in control

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DOC LOVE'S ANSWER

Hi Larry,

You mention that you have a tough time with Self-Control and Challenge. But remember this – before you picked up “The System,” you didn’t even know about Self-Control and Challenge. At least now you understand what you have to be aware of and work on when it comes to dating and relationships. What’s so great about my book is that it points out your weaknesses and the areas that you have to upgrade.

Since you own “The System,” you know what it says about long-distance relationships: THEY DON’T WORK. You knew and understood that Self-Control and Challenge were something you had to work on, but long-distance relationships are covered in my book as well. Why didn’t you mention that you had a problem in that area too? You left out a major issue, Larry, and it will be your downfall.

And you admit as well that you know you only give money to your wife. So what did you do? You lost Self-Control and opened your wallet. And by the way, you butchered Challenge by giving this woman money.

Then you tell me that Nico is moody and has a bad temper. Pal, you said it all right there! What does “The System” say about women who are moody and ill-tempered? RUN! And like my Uncle Jethro Love says, “There’s nothing worse than a hardheaded woman.” The problem here is that your Interest Level is in the 90s. And Nico’s isn’t.

Then you went and took Nico back after you broke up. There’s a chapter in my book that says YOU CAN’T GO BACK. Dude, it’s amazing that you understand “The System” so well intellectually, but you haven’t absorbed it at all emotionally. This means that you haven’t read it over and over and over again. You have to read it once a week for 15 weeks and then you have to read seven pages a night every night for the rest of your life, otherwise you’re not going to make it. And you’re proving that, Larry, I’m sorry to say.

Instead of shelling out all of this money to Nico for nothing, you should have bought lottery tickets instead! The reason you couldn’t stop yourself from making mistake after mistake with her was because your Interest Level was way too high. To you Psych majors, that’s why the man’s interest should be 80% to 89% and the woman’s should be 90% to 100%. Like my cousin Fast Eddie Love from East L.A. says, “She should always be more in love with him that he is with her.”

My friend, if I asked you to fly through the air like Michael Jordan, you could practice basketball for a hundred years and you’d never be able to do it. But if I offered you a million bucks tax-free to stop seeing Nico, you could do it. So you have the ability. The problem is that when she dumped you, rejection doubled your Interest Level and you lost it.

Remember, guys: until “The System” is fully memorized, you will continue to make mistakes, even if you know what they are.

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