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Dating Women Podcast Episode 47

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*Taking the mystery out of women
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READER'S QUESTION

Hey Doc,

I’m 24 and have been dating Ramona, 20, for two years. I own “The System,” but I haven’t read it enough. Anyway, Ramona’s behavior is erratic. Sometimes she won’t answer my texts and at other times she texts me all day long. I know you should never text a girl, but this is at times a long distance relationship because she is at college, an hour away from me, and at other times three and a half hours away at her parent’s home.


Anyway, things with Ramona went tremendously for the first year and a half. I knew her interest was in the 90s but I did take her for granted at times, became comfortable, and when fights occurred, I would not apologize if I was in the wrong and I would more or less run away from the problem. I was also negative, controlling, and critical at times. Until recently I thought nothing of it.


Flash forward to Christmas. I went to her parents’ house. Ramona told me I could only stay for three days because her parents didn’t like it if I stayed too long. But her parents had told me on another occasion that they liked it when I stayed, so I confronted Ramona about it and she swore that she was telling the truth. Anyway, I left after a week. Things were going pretty well until I got clingy because Ramona was texting me less. She told that she didn’t text because I was pushing her away, and also that she wanted to be less physically romantic with me. I apologized for being clingy and for being critical.

She went back to school and I went there and saw her for a day. She took me out to eat because it was my birthday, and we were making tremendous conversation. I also made sure to keep it light and funny. After I left she had a busy week of classes, so I made sure not to text her before she texted me.


Anyway, from that point onwards, I’m hearing from her less and less. I’ve called her twice and she hasn’t answered either call. I can sense her interest has gone down over time. Do you think it’s below 50%? Is she stringing me along until she finds someone new, or is her interest still above 50% and can I recover?

Golden - who doesn’t want to keep making the same mistakes over and over again

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DOC LOVE'S ANSWER

Hi Golden,

Wait just a minute here. You’re telling me that you have “The System” and now you’re writing me with a girlfriend problem? Dude, this is unbelievable! You know that my book has to be MEMORIZED in order for it to be 100% effective and for you to be prepared for all situations. To you Psych majors, The System” isn’t just for casual reading – it has to be committed to memory.

And what are you doing in a long-distance relationship? If you had even read my book once you would know that long-distance relationships are a no-no because they don’t work. But what I find most interesting about your situation is that you’re making all kinds of mistakes with Ramona, while at the same time recognizing that you’re making the mistakes. Why don’t you just not make the mistakes, Golden? Acting clingy and critical and negative with this girl is going to take its toll, and you seem to be unwilling to stop the behavior when you know it’s wreaking havoc. And why are you fighting with Ramona when she’s not even physically near you most of the time?

Then you went and picked an argument with her over how long you should stay at her parents’ house. What did you expect her to say? Did you actually expect her to confess that she lied to you? Of course she was going to shift the blame to her parents in this situation. Golden, it’s just ill-advised to look for something to fight with Ramona over. There’s no point to it whatsoever.

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When Ramona told you she wanted to be less physically romantic with you, she was withdrawing. Her interest is going due south, pal. Like my cousin General Love says, “This airplane is going to crash.”

All of that said, Ramona’s interest has not yet dropped below 50%. Right now it’s hovering somewhere between 51% and 55% and you’re on the way out. It only has to drop a few more points and you’re going to be looking at Ramona over your shoulder.

So what you need to do immediately is memorize my book because you’re breaking every rule in it. And that’s your problem here. What’s really ironic is that you actually had “The System” in your hands and didn’t take the time to memorize it, so you only have yourself to blame.

No, Ramona isn’t stringing you along until she finds a replacement for you. You’re projecting here, my friend. And yes, you can recover if you read my book once week for 15 weeks and start getting your act together. You have to start dating Ramona and act like nothing bad has happened between the two of you. If you do that, you have a chance of turning this thing around. But if you keep acting the way you’ve been acting with Ramona for a couple more weeks, you’re going to be history.

Remember, guys: to have “The System” and not memorize it is like dropping the ball at the two-yard line in a football game.

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