Ever hear this BRAINWASHING?
“You have to chase her.”
“Women play hard to get.”
“Just keep trying and you’ll win her over.”
Those are popular but false statements that keep good guys like you running over and over again into brick walls with women you have ZERO chance with.
You want to know how to tell if a girl likes you? Read the 3 foolproof ways that I teach in my dating and relationship education course called THE SYSTEM
*Her body language has her leaning in toward you
*She asks you personal questions
*Her eyes are lit up as she’s talking to you
*It’s easy to talk to her
*She touches you – such as brushing your arm or leg as she laughs – at least once but usually multiple times
*You get no hesitation when asking for her number
*She doesn’t look away and give you one word answers to your questions
Gut feeling guys – don’t stop listening to the little voice inside you. You know when a woman is into you – but sometimes you feel so strongly about a girl you really like that you try to project your INTEREST LEVEL on her. You really want the girl you like to demonstrate the above and she doesn’t – so you make excuses as you try to grasp at straws hoping she’ll be into you – but remember this:
WOMEN HELP YOU WHEN THEY LIKE YOU.
Think about the women you REALLY LIKE – you know the ones that you can’t stop thinking about once you got her number. Have you broken any of those dates? Did you just decide a few hours before that she wasn’t for you?
I’m not talking about the girls that you were half into – I’m talking about the ones that had that immediate lump in the throat/your brain screams “who is THAT” feeling.
Have you broken dates with those women or were you counting the hours and then the minutes until you could pick them up?
It would take a catastrophe for you to miss the date with her and even then you’d probably try to reschedule during the ambulance ride. If she doesn’t have the same feeling for you then FORGET IT. Why would you want to waste your time and money on a girl that isn’t anticipating going out with you as much as you are her?
“Women are different Doc, ” you might say.
They’re just like us – they get strong feelings for guys just like we get them for ladies – ever seen a bunch of them at a concert as they’re watching a hot singer? Yeah, so don’t tell me that they can’t act just like we do!
When you are on a date you might as well be the only person in the room because if she really likes you that’s how it will seem to you. If you have to drag conversation out of her as she is looking more and more bored then you should forget it.
I would think that’s obvious to a lot of guys but sadly it’s not. Again, with the BRAINWASHING in our society when it comes to dating women guys think that all they have to do is try harder and pursue more.
I’m going back to point #1 because it’s important. If you don’t remember anything else from this article remember this: